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Old Feb 27, 2006, 04:56 PM
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One step forward, two back
I have been dating a guy off and on for over 3 months but don't get to see him often as he has a son and between that, his job and his church, i am a distant 4th place. When there is time to get together something doesn’t work out for one of us. Last night, I finally freaked and said that I was feeling ignored. (via e-mail) and he said “right now I am as there are some other things more important than pacifying me that he needed to tend to.” Of course this upset me. Is this normal for a man who has kids? I responded by saying “that I appreciate his honestly” and said that I care about him and will be out of town for a few days, and happy to know where I stand. But I am hurt. Is this normal?

Please pray for me and pray for my patients and how I can get though this.

I am 31 years old, never married and really like this guy!

What do I do?

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Old Feb 27, 2006, 09:47 PM   #2  
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Yes, he is a busy guy. I wouldnt push him, or this will go nowhere. that is GREAT that he is honest with you, let him make the moves now, he knows you are interested.

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confuzed agrees: I agree, leave it up to him to make the next moves!
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Hi, Single,
I remember a question very similar to this one, posted a little while back.
He was hones with you, saying he has more important things on his mind right now. The words about "pacifying you" should be a warning signal. He is not that interested in you. If he were, he would not have said that. He really doesn't want any relationship now.
Since you have only known him for 3 months, (approx 12 weeks), isn't really a long time at all, and already he is telling you he doesn't have time.
I would definitely start looking around at other men. I do wish you the best.
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I remember a similar question before, could be from the same person? Maybe! Wish I had the same answer as before I would share. If this person really likes you he will make time for you no matter what. He is not doing that so that should tell you, you are not that important to me. I do not care how busy somebody is when you have a love in your life or that your interested in you do everything to make time. He is not doing that.

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