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Old Jan 8, 2008, 08:19 PM
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what can i doo?
hey there. my name is kiran and im new to this. i have a question some of you guyz might not think its a question but i;d still like someone to help me with this. me and my boyfriend broke up and month and half ago and he deiced we sud be friends . which didn;t really work out cuz he was too busy with work and school. couple of nights ago i ended up the the hosptal cuz i really gave up about this whole sitution. im understress soo he felt bad for me and he saidd if u can get better by me coming backk he said he wil come backk to me. soo we;r not sorta kinda back 2gther knowing he just came back cuz he felt bad for me but at the same time he does care. im still really happy we'r back 2gther maybe it will work out. hez not gonna be home for a while 2night but i want to email him and be thankfull to come abck to me. i'd like some ideas to say to him which will make him realize how much he means to mee

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Old Jan 8, 2008, 09:33 PM   #2  
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wow, I just wanna say, I am happy for you and not to sound like a B**** but I really hope he loves you coz otherwise he shouldnt take you back.
As for what you can do, Maybe cook him a nice meal or something, Do something from the heart, coz when its from the heart its got meaning. And doing it yourself is nicer then buying it so try something along those lines... Please never harm yourself over a guy, or infact anything else, its not worth it not one little bit... And I speak that very strongly..
PLEASE DO NOT SELF HARM EVER there are otherways to express that pain and life does get better....
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thanx for u r opinion but i dont know why i feel this, i think he took me back because i was sick it seems like hez doing me a favor or forced to get back with with no feelings. but at the same time i think he took me back because he feels my pain and still care bout me ...
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You should move on, and forget this relationship built on PITY. He will be gone, when you get better. The rest is he may care, but not enough to really stay as you get better so what are you gonna do, stay in the hospital, to keep him?? Let him go, and be healthy without him, please. You don't need to play drama queen to keep a man.
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He sounds like he is a nice guy. Take comfort in the fact that he is a nice guy and don't take advantage of that.
But if he is just with you out of pity, it will never work.
It will only be slow torture for you. Don't settle for pity. You deserve to be loved for you, not out of a sense of guilt.I know this is not what you want to hear.
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If the relationship ends between both of you then won't you have to go through all the problems and stress again of a break up? Thats something you have to consider before taking it too far.
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Tal said it best. The minute you are better, he will be gone. Seriously, leave this one alone.
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lemme guess...you guys are...in...middle school? high school?
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we're in high school.. thanx for u r answers guyz
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