Wow, that's a hard one... no pun intended.
It could be that you might have to stick with the forplay for a while, and we all know that could be fun. Maybe you are afraid that you can't meet her expectations, so it might take a few times before you get there.
Try spending the night with just the foreplay and maybe, just maybe, you might wake up before your head (the one on your neck) kicks in. That might work - if it does, gently wake her and try it then. Some women really like to be awakened that way, and there would be no need for much 'preparation'.
This might also mean that you are more serious about this gal than you have been with others and that you think too much about how to do it 'right'. Relax a little.
Then of course, you also could converse with her about such things as fantasies, likes and preferences at an appropriate time.
Chin up, Jeff, you've performed before, just give it time and don't put yourself under too much pressure.
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