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Old Jul 13, 2006, 08:16 PM
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Ok....this is embarrassing...........
So tonight things are getting hot and heavy between me and my lady friend, and we decide to take it to the bedroom....... I was SO ready to go until it came time, then I just totally freaked myself out and couldnt do it! Now, I have NO problem getting aroused by any means, but I just couldnt shut off my head, and I was pretty shocked to say the least! This had never happened to me before!!! I know I dont have ED or anything like that, but why did my head take over like that? Performance anxiety? This totally sucks!!! She asked me what was wrong, and I just told her I was nervouse.....I WAS!! This will be the 1st girl I have been with since my EX, so I dont know if that has anything to do with it or not. What the heck is going on here?!

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Old Jul 14, 2006, 10:08 AM   #11  
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Dude - that's perfectly fine and the way it should be in reality. I sure some ****head, jock, badboy would tell you different.

We're products of the MTV society where we want everything YESTERDAY!!!!! It DOESN'T work that way with intimacy. Never.

COMMUNICATE!!!! ALWAYS!!!! and forever......

I would say 100% you habe rushed. I'll say ti again - when ever I am fast and furious with a women - I usually crash and burn - always.
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Old Jul 15, 2006, 12:58 AM   #12  
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I agree with you cat & Chery.... Like I said before, I LOVE 4 play, and I think we are rushing into things a bit. I think maybe we should stick to fooling around a bit before we "do the deed". I guess I need to get comforitable with her for some reason, its just a bit shocking to me I guess. I might see her tonight, so should I talk to her about this, or just let things slide? Thanks for all your help on this abomination guys! LOL!
Babe, you know that the 'cat' and I are always advocating communication. It's the basis of any relationship - either rmakes it or breaks it. Besides, comminication is the key to beginning any relationship.

If she's in tune with you, she can probably understand what you are going through, so go ahead and tell her that you think waiting would be worth it.

Again, good luck.
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Old Jul 15, 2006, 06:10 AM   #13  
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ok, so i've met a guy who is expressive about his emotions and now here is a couple more who love forplay... gaaawwd have i been lookin in the wrong ocean. *giggles*

Seriously tho Jeff, everyones got great advice. my guy (i think he still is..last i checked.. unsure but *coughs*) had told me straight up from the begining he may have some problems in that area and may not be able to 'proform'. i told him that it was ok. i didnt think of him as some little dog who had to do tricks.

For him to just relax and enjoy being with me, as much as i was simply enjoying his nearness and snuggles. it aint always about the sex. Doesnt have to be.
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Got over it last night!! Everyhting was in perfect working order!!! Afterwards I talked to her about what the problem was, and she just told me not to worry about it! So glad I got that monkey off my back, and got things back on track!!
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Good job my man!!!!! It was all that practice!!!

Blazing - YES!!! Foreplay is important - most guys have no clue how enjoyable it can and should be - plenty of time for the main event. Got warm each other up a little.

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