i've been in a relationship for the past two years..and i really love the guy alot..but lately i have noticed that i am turning into this overprotective person....im really worried about wat he is doing, im devastated when he gets hurt, i end up yelling at him for not taking care of himself when im not with him...my biggest fear is dat he should not start hating me because of this....if this goes on a while, he'll start getting irritated about it and might not want to talk to me anymore....im really scared...really really scared.....but im not able to stop myself from doin it because i care about him alot and i cant take it if something happens to him....im lost!!!!!!

N0help4u

Sometimes you can care to the point you smother. Try rephrasing things so they don't come off as controlling to something more light hearted, like if he hurts himself when you aren't around say something like aha if only I could be your guardian angel. 0r hmmm you really shouldn't hurt my (his name) like that. That way you can say something of concern and at the same time and not sound like you are trying to run his life.