I would appreciate your advice as I don't know how to understand this situation. We are friends with this guy for two moths only and now is his birthday, I was expecting for him to invite me to his house and was about to buy a present, but I was surprised when I called to congratulate him and he said that he will be going out to the pub for a drink with his mates to celebrate his birthday and did not invited me.
Thank you. Klai
Depends on the type of friendship between you guys. You need too give more detail here. How often do use see eachother, what is the friendship like etc.
we see each other at least once per week. he doesn't want marriage nor kids in the future that is fine with me but he is serious about our relationship though very laid back: he never asks me out, buys presents or flowers, as his idea is that women only wants money and having said that he behaves like a cheepskate towards me sometimes..
yes it seems that I am more serious about our relationship, than he is.He is 32 an I am 38, is that big age difference for him to be seriously involved in the relationship with me? He says he is fine about that, but now I just don't know..
Well to me, and from what you have written. Pretty much. I know this may sound disappointing but if you are already sleeping with somebody you hardly know then you are expecting way too much.
2 months
sometimes sleep together
there seems to be not much there, oh and about the age. Not much of an age different if your both in your 30's but to be honest it sounds like you have fallen for somebody that does not feel the same.
I could be wrong but you have not said anything different to change my thoughts on it. Does that mean I am absolutely right, no. Just my opinion and thoughts on how you described it too me.
Again I will repeat, does not sound like you have any kind of relationship with this person.