my boyfriend got busted trying to hang out with a girl. i asked why, he said it was because she was "different." I kept asking "how different?" tooth and nail, it finally came out "because she was bigger than me. ok, my dude's into thick girls. fine.
but then, i ran into her. she is a lot smaller than me and curvy. i was more athletic with big boobs. i confronted him. he said he liked her because she is thinner than me?!?!?
first i'm too skinny, then i'm too fat?!?! he begs me to stay with him and now i'm totally paranoid and insecure. it's been about a year and before i was average- now i am fat! i think it's because i'm depressed. now, he doesn't want to have sex with me because i really am fat. he swares he loves me and will not let me break up with him, he won't look for another place, i beg him that our relationship is toxic adn if he really loved me he would move on so i could take care of myself and find someone who loved me for me.
he says i am the perfect girl and he loves me and wants to be with me forever- but we haven't had sex for a year and he has hinted at having sex with me if i lose weight. how sick is that?!?!
i keep gaining weight and i know it has to do with this relationship.
if i lose weight and get back to my normal self- i know i wouldn't want to have sex with him just to spite him.

i'm right,right? he's messed up adn i'm screwy for even being around him?
there are other qualities that are sooo right about him- but these actions are fundamental on his character right?

help!

mackythehacker

1st thing get rid of him, if he ''hints'' about having sex after u lose weight. its just sick, because, theres nothing wrong with a girl having some fat, some guys think its better, u be urself, and if he dosnt like it tell him where to go....

starbuck8

Everyone seriously, this is a dead thread. It was posted in March! The OP hasn't even come back since the original question. I answered the rude response from a poster that made a rude comment and was name calling. Although, I do agree with JesusHelper that this could help others, the advice given will probably never help the OP because she likely won't see it.

talaniman

Let me point out something we all forget sometimes, because a thread loses activity, doesn't mean people don't read it, they just don't respond. On the question page of every forum there is a replies column, that gives a number of respondents, and a views column, that shows how many have read it.

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