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Old Jun 11, 2007, 03:30 PM
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nice guys finish last

True or false?

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Old Jun 11, 2007, 03:40 PM   #2  
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Not always true, but I can see where people get that impression.

I would say all depends on the situation. There is no just true or false answer.

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biggsie agrees: nice guys are boring and lack confidence
bushg agrees: true my 17 year old son is nice and courteous to girls and has a very nice girl and they are very respectful of each other. Btw they are very into sports and their grades , both have goals that they want to acheive.
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Ok just a wee example.

Boy makes a silly stupid but ultimately harmless mistake, tries to say sorry and gets dumped.

Boy treats his girl like crap, maybe even beats her, but says he loves her and that it wont happen again, girl forgives and stays with him.
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I would say with that example and that situation. Yes, nice guy finishes last.
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its not that girls like @ssholes... its that girls like CONFIDENCE and the majority of the time, arrogant @ssholes exude confidence while your typical "nice guy" does not.

So one could say that yes, "nice guys" finish last. However, that doesnt mean that nice guys finish last.

(didja get that?)

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stonewilder agrees: ...but I like my guys somewhere in the middle of really nice and arrogant. (with out the @ss part)
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very true.

But i hate it when girls go on and on about how they cant find someone to treat them right or they are sick of always being hurt.

Sometimes you just wanna say "darlin maybe prison isnt the best place to go looking for a date" lol

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bushg agrees: these girls lack maturity, the guy should be glad they got dropped in this case
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girls say a lot of things lol the problem is that most of the guys that will treat her right are "wusses". I dont mean that in too much of a derogatory term, its just means that they roll-over. Its the "Lemme buy you a drink", "I called you 17 times today... where were you?", "follow you around everywhere you go", puppy-dog kinda guys.

Its all about the Laws of Attraction. If you are interested, there is a lot of recommending reading on this subject that will help anyone in this area of life. No, its not manipulation or deceiving... its simply a way of being a better you.


But yeah, i was a "nice guy" and it sucked. Always stuck in the friend zone. but that soon changed

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yea man, before i met my ex it seemed that every girl i wanted i was stuck in the friend zone with, now that sucked worse than paris hilton makin a comeback vid
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LOL agrred to that!!!

Heres a good post that a cool cat named Wildcat posted. http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relatio...ion-45424.html check that out, and some of his other posts/suggested reading. Hes got this stuff nailed
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Originally Posted by zooropa1985
True or false?

Unfortunately, it's true.

But it doesn't mean that nice guys should become bad.

I think we girls like nice guys better, but somehow we're more attracted to the other 'types'... Again, unfortunately!

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nicespringgirl disagrees: No not really, I know plenty of girls that are only interested in nice guys I dislike @s, never liked them.
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