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hey guys i got another question. i hooked up with a friend of mine's friend last nite. i had friends tellin me that she really liked me and that they thought we had a great chance at bein together. she just got out of a relationship that she really didnt want to be in anyway. my question is that is it too early too call her on the next day? i dont know if it was just a random hook up or somethin more (people keep tellin me they think its gonna lead to somethin more). how do i find out what her intentions are without just comming out and saying it. my 1 friend keeps tellin me 2 call but i don know if its too early, what do you guys think?? thanks

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Old Feb 19, 2006, 04:05 PM   #2  
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Never to early to call in my opinon, don't be over pushy, but a call after meeting and "hanging" is not out of line.

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blueiman agrees: yup never to early just take it slow and have fun.
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Old Feb 19, 2006, 08:43 PM   #3  
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If you are attracted to a person then always do what you feel like is right to do. If you want to call her do.......it would be a shame if she wanted you to call and you didn't....you might spend the rest of your life saying "Only if I had called her" Good Luck
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BELIEVE ME!!! Wait. Wait til wednesday. Seriously. But do call. One day makes you look desperate. Women love the anticipation more than the act in everything.

ALSO -becarefull here. Who did the breaking? If she broke you maybe OK to proceed.

If she was dump....you could bethe rebound and her looking to hurt someone.
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Old Feb 19, 2006, 09:42 PM   #5  
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Yes, for sure wait a day or two befor calling her. Don't act like your trying to dog her. If it is meant to happen it will happen. Trust me on this one.
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Old Feb 20, 2006, 06:01 AM   #6  
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Hi,
Your friends could, or could not be, right about this girl. The only way you will know is to call her, talk with her, see if you wants to go out with you. What's wrong with calling her the next day?
If you like her, call her. If you are worried or concerned about her thinking you are "desperate", why in the world would she think that? She doesn't know you! She might be very flattered that you think enough of her to call her so soon. I do wish you the best of luck. Remember, you can impress someone much better by listening to them, instead of them listening to you. Talk about what she wants to talk about.
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Fred - it doesn't work that way anymore. maybe 40 years ago - not now.
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Old Feb 20, 2006, 08:16 AM   #8  
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LOL, HA HA HA. Sorry Fred but he is right. Heck I am 48 and have to agree with the above. If this was Leave it to the Beaver, or Father knows best maybe. It is all about respect but in the 21st centurie. Kids today are very wise in ways that my age group were not when we wre that age.

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Wildcat21 agrees: Yes, unfrotunately that's how it works today. It builds attraction, today - "people want what they can't have" - always.
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Old Feb 20, 2006, 08:42 AM   #9  
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when my relationship was over. the next day i started asking women out that i'm attracted to. i never thought about waiting. why, if i dont ask she may find another... so, its never to early/late just be yourself. ask her out and just have fun. dont get serious to fast. remember, if youre not sure about something just wait a little while and the answer will come to you. patients is a good thing. have fun and good luck!
do not be to serious!!!
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I do not agree. This guy has been set up by mutual friends. If he was just out to nail some girl yes I would agree. But he wants more then that. He needs a edge to show he is very much interested in her but not just trying to score. So I think just chill a day or two and then do his thing.
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