hey guys i got another question. i hooked up with a friend of mine's friend last nite. i had friends tellin me that she really liked me and that they thought we had a great chance at bein together. she just got out of a relationship that she really didnt want to be in anyway. my question is that is it too early too call her on the next day? i dont know if it was just a random hook up or somethin more (people keep tellin me they think its gonna lead to somethin more). how do i find out what her intentions are without just comming out and saying it. my 1 friend keeps tellin me 2 call but i don know if its too early, what do you guys think?? thanks

Wildcat21

Don't rush it dude. It's OK to go a few days without hearing from her. Builds mystery, challenge, misses you - all those things women want - everyone of them.

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you know what, youre right. i really do wanna talk to her but i think i should take your advice. i didnt take it in my previous situation and look where it got me.....wishin that i listened to you earlier. ill give it a couple days and not contact her unless she contacts me first. thanks

Wildcat21

Well, sometimes we are all stuborn. I learn something new every day about this stuff.

Yep, make her come to you. Always.

Don't be so avaialble this time - be busy - she'll love you for it.

That which is chased - runs!

And - remember - women really think differently as far time goes - guys want everything yesterday because it's logical. Women don't see it that way.

If you don't hear from hear after a coupel days - call her. She may have just been waiting for your call. And she will appreciate not being smothered.