hey guys i got another question. i hooked up with a friend of mine's friend last nite. i had friends tellin me that she really liked me and that they thought we had a great chance at bein together. she just got out of a relationship that she really didnt want to be in anyway. my question is that is it too early too call her on the next day? i dont know if it was just a random hook up or somethin more (people keep tellin me they think its gonna lead to somethin more). how do i find out what her intentions are without just comming out and saying it. my 1 friend keeps tellin me 2 call but i don know if its too early, what do you guys think?? thanks

lost??

she ended up calling me yesterday. we just talked about school and work and stuff. i really think she was tryin to get to know me. anyway she invited me to go with her and a bunch of her friends when they go away for a weekend next month (haha). when she was gettin off the phone she told me to call her anytime i felt like it and kept thankin me for some reason??? it really sounded like she wanted me to call today. i want to but like you guys said i dont wanna come on too stong. when do you think is a good time to call??

Wildcat21

Well, that's outstanding. Why can't every woman just do that? Oh, yeah....it's too LOGICAL!!!

I think, wth her - when you feel like. BUT!!!! Not too often.....take it slow my man.

I am happy for you, you might have a keeper.

Wildcat21

Oh - did you make her laugh?????????????????????????????????

lost??

haha yea i did we made each other laugh and she kept tellin me how cute i was then would give me a kiss..... it was a little weird cause im not used 2 bein called cute like every 10 seconds but i have to admit i enjoyed it hahaha

RUBLUE

Sounds like you got her. So have fun, but reel her in slow. You stay in control of this realtionship. I would call her Wednesday late afternoon. Keep a little mystery there. I promise she will still be there. You are young Bro, what's the hurry. It will make her want you more then you will ever no. It's only the day after tomorrow. Stay cool and enjoy. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wildcat21

You don't want to too 'cute' either.....or she'll friend you. You want to be the man. The stud.

lost??

yea i know what you mean. you can def tell that we're both interested in each other. everytime we talk we're always askin about eachothers family is and classes and stupid stuff like that. we were talkin on the phone again last ntie for like an hour. but she kept sayin that cute stuff again. i dont know why but for some reason it bothers me that she says it over and over again. anyway shes goin out with her friends tonight but told me to give her a call if i get bored. if i call her thatll be 3 days in a row, does that look needy? i like this girls and i dont wanna mess this up and have her thinkin ill do anything she says like my last gf.

Wildcat21

Yes....and being on the phone for an hour does as well....yee - been there, done that.

lost??

so then how long do i wait to call her without makin her think i lost interest?

RUBLUE

Bro, how many times do I have to tell you. Just give it a rest for 1 day. YOU ALREADY GOT HER!! But she sounds like a real touchy, feely, clng on peson to me. If she is and you are into that kind of person great. Again this is just me. But after awhile that constant cling starts to wear me out and turn me off. And your kinda blowing it at the start by not telling her how you FEEL uncomfertable with her telling you how cute you are every two minutes. Dude I don't no how old you are and it does not really matter. I don't think you want to get married right now. So CHILL.. I know a day when I was young was to freeking long for anything. I don't know what youe values are or where your head is at. But since you are such a good looking guy CHILL OUT. Man you gotta lot of life ahead of you. Don't make such a DRAMA over some girl you are hot for. Be a man. I do not be mean be rude to her and not meet her needs, just be in control from the start. And Bro with ANY realtionship if your not honest at the start the realtionship will be doomed that I know for sure. GEEEZZZZ!!!!!! How did I ever grow up without the internet ?