is it normal?

Lindsey15 · #1 Sep 3, 2007, 12:52 PM

ok so my b/f and i have intercourse a few times. we were each other's firsts and stuff. and then we decided to stop until we got a little older (we r 16). for like the first week or two everything he did (kisses, hugs, laying next to him watching a movie, ect.) teased my body. now i can lay next to him and it doesnt tease me anymore and i like just laying there better than actually having intercourse. is that abnormal? im confused.

Wondergirl · Sep 3, 2007, 12:54 PM

It sounds like a wonderful feeling, to be there with him and loving him "just because".

Suelle383 · Sep 3, 2007, 12:55 PM

I think its totally normal. Honestly, I didn't really enjoy intercourse until I was in my mid-20s. At your age, you should hold off on doing anything you don't really want to do. Snuggling and being close is intimacy, so if you enjoy that, i would stick with it.

Lindsey15 · Sep 3, 2007, 12:56 PM

oh im not complaining. it IS a wonderful feeling. but i talked to my sister kind of and she said that even after going out with her h usband for 3 years and being married for one she still feels teased by what he does.

x2scorp · Sep 3, 2007, 02:09 PM

Its totally normal, you still love him right? I think its a great idea about stopping intercourse!



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