i have know my best friend for 11 years and he is married with 2 kids. i have one but not married. we worked together for about 7 years. he has a really bad marriage for about 4 years . his wife cheated on him 2x with his cousin. he kicked her out and took her back 2x. about 2 years ago we started to have sex with each other. she has not been giving him it in about 4 years. so we started. it was suppost to be a friend with beifits and i have really strong feelings for him. i never told him that i did but i think that he nows. we talk on the phone all the time. he ask me all the time if im seeing anybody else and i tell him no but i will tell you if i do . what do i do i really love him but dont know how he feels and dont know how to ask him. help me please.

AandZ4ever

well, honestly this is all a mess girl. i am 15 and even i can see that. To be true to yourself i would end this relationship. The guy has a wife and kids, you will tear that apart. you have a kid yourself. and ur NOT married. um what does that say about you? you are not very responsible but dont be mad just saying. This mess will catch up with you. end it now and start a new chapter in your life. Meet a new guy and marry him. You and ur bff are not soulmates. and if you by chance are then let fate step in I MEAN HES MARRIED! you arent going to heaven .

rankrank55

Uuuummmmm I don't think this situation you are in will deem you to hell.... Anyways, you must tell him how you feel and if things can't be worked out and go farther then you must cease the sexual relationship. It's not healthy. It sounds as if he is interested in more than just sex from you but keep in mind that he IS still married and that he as cheated on his wife. I understand the situation with his wife was spoiled but he did cheat meaning that he could possibly to it to you. Another aspect you have to consider...the children, how are they going to feel. In all honestly, you both probably need to go your separate ways and into a relationship without burnt bridges and excess baggage.

AandZ4ever

Yeah rank we got it right basically shortyz end it. before its too late.

CaptainRich

You're definitely on a slippery slope with this kind of relationship.
There's nothing stable here I can see. You should look for someone who's available.

rankrank55

Wow Cap LOOK we have the same amount of posts! 938!

x2scorp

Um, he is married right? Dont you feel that what you are doing is wrong even though his wife is doing the same? Seriously, if he is doing it to her what makes you think he wont do it to you?

Best wishes,

rankrank55

Exactly x2, two wrongs NEVER make a right.