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Feb 12, 2008, 08:49 PM
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Posts: 23
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Should I block my ex from my buddylist?
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Feb 12, 2008, 09:11 PM
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#2
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Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: West Seneca
Posts: 324
| I did, i removed her altogether... i doubt any sort of reconciliation is going to be very meaningful over the internets. |
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Feb 12, 2008, 09:20 PM
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#3
| | Ultra Member
Join Date: Nov 2007
Posts: 1,309
| if you leave her on, she'll know when you're on or not as you may also have an indication about her activity... to some degree... who needs that? | |
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Feb 12, 2008, 09:57 PM
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#4
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Posts: 33
| Yes! Do it. He/she will do the same anyway... | |
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Feb 12, 2008, 09:57 PM
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#5
| | Ultra Member
Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: atl
Posts: 3,872
| yep. block. delete.
she can't contact you. and you have no idea if she's on. go on through life as if she never existed. | |
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Feb 12, 2008, 09:58 PM
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#6
| | Adult Sexuality Expert
Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: looking for my pants
Posts: 4,672
| most breaks are for good.
up to you... if you find it distracting, sure... do it. im guessing you do, or you wouldnt have posted this.
maybe its how im wired. usually after a breakup ive completely cut out the ex from my life. in one case i became friends with her again, but only after a year or so, and only after i had moved on... and the break wasnt really all that ugly to begin with.
so... are you a "bad person" or being "immature" if you do this? mostly no. whats your goal? to punish your ex? to get your ex out of your space? both? | |
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Feb 13, 2008, 07:35 AM
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#7
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Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Space Is The Place
Posts: 25,270
| If your trying to move on, YES, this is essential to block, delete. | |
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Feb 13, 2008, 08:01 AM
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#8
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Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: My own little corner of the world
Posts: 2,122
| If you are committed to doing NC, then yes, you should.
From personal experience, yes. Delete. Block. Do what is necessary. You don't need the unexpected window to pop up and flood you with memories.
Purge the buddy list, my friend. | |
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