The NC Calendar

Numb · Aug 30, 2007, 02:34 AM

I just had this idea after reading Mik's post.

How about if we use this thread to count the NC days, all of us? Each one would mention how long he/she's been maintaining the NC period and how he/she feels with time.
Maybe in some way this can help us all (including me)?

This is my first NC day.. Afternoon here, so far didn't even touch my phone. I don't know how I feel, but I'm not that miserable, I have a goal and thinking about it, NOT HER!

What about the rest of you?

ihatewestseneca · Dec 24, 2007, 08:44 PM

Btw 2 days and strong... lol, not really, but after every weak moment when i cry, when im done crying i remember that shes the reason im crying and why would i want to call her and let her know that shes getting to me. I dont think i deserve to be a plan B to anyone.

ISneezeFunny · Dec 25, 2007, 05:41 AM

way to go west. way to go.

roughly...2 weeks with a hiccup a week ago. going strong? eh...still going.

MissingHim2Much · Dec 25, 2007, 06:01 AM

It's been 5 months no contact for me now...I think N/C is the easiest part of all this. I suppose when your ex moves in with someone immediatly after leaving you it makes N/C that much easier... I mean what would I say anyway...Offer to buy them a house warming gift??

ISneezeFunny · Dec 25, 2007, 06:20 AM

haha true. funny thing is, my ex and i had a "good breakup". one of those, I LOVE YOU, AND I WANT US TO TALK IN ABOUT A MONTH OR SO...

...those.

so it was hard. not only did i love this girl, she was GOOD. we broke up...WELL. so i missed her even more. i even remember saying to one of my friends, I WISH SHE CHEATED ON ME OR SOMETHING SO I CAN BE MAD AT HER AND GET OVER HER QUICKER.

3 days later, from her friends, i find out some dude's been spending the night at her place.

...touche fate. touche.

MissingHim2Much · Dec 25, 2007, 06:31 AM

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Originally Posted by ISneezeFunny

i even remember saying to one of my friends, I WISH SHE CHEATED ON ME OR SOMETHING SO I CAN BE MAD AT HER AND GET OVER HER QUICKER.

3 days later, from her friends, i find out some dude's been spending the night at her place.

...touche fate. touche.

I don't think even the fact that he moved in with someone else made it easier or quicker to get over him...I should've been mad but for months I made excuses for him...In my mind it was almost like I thought he left for some reasons beyond his control... Like he didn't really mean it...But I do think that the fact he's with someone else definately made N/C easier.. Reason being, I was scared I'd find out he was happy... I didn't want to hear that.

ihatewestseneca · Dec 25, 2007, 02:22 PM

I really really want her back... i know this is probably a weak moment but i want her so bad to realize that she made a mistake. But i swear im not gonna call her, or even text her a merry christmas. But sometimes i wonder if she wont realize that she made a mistake, and she is stubborn about making the first move... but i guess a phone call isnt really too much to ask for... i know NC is about me, but i just find myself waiting for her to call. especially now around the holidays when almost all my friends are away.

ihatewestseneca · Dec 25, 2007, 02:23 PM

day 3... so far so good.

talaniman · Dec 25, 2007, 02:45 PM

Natural feelings, its only been 3 days, I do suggest you get proactive on your healing though, it will fill the time better than waiting and wondering.

kuulski · Dec 26, 2007, 10:26 AM

Well Guys I have been doing great until today. Dont want to beat myself up about it but my ex emailed me after 4 MONTHS! This is how it went down lol. First email was a Hi in the title with no body to the email I email back hello. She emails back just wanted to check on you and the baby and see how you guys are doing. I give her a quick snapshot of what has been going on with my daughter in her new school etc.. Next is so what u been up to? gave her a quick snapshot of that stuff working out diet etc.. HELP! lol.
I feel I have been progressing sooo much I really dont want to see it ruined cause she decided to contact me. Me and her did not have nasty falling out or anything just went through allot myself personally allot of death and it strained our relationship so we parted ways. But recently I met somebody she works with by chance on a internet dating site once i realized they worked at the same job, had the same manager, etc.. I cut the girl off I dont have any animoisty torwards my ex I am hurt but not bitter. Recently I had been really struggling with missing her and I do miss her badly but I dont want any recurrence or setbacks. Do I love her ? Yes Do I miss her ? Yes would I try to work it out? Probably but I dont want to walk into a bear trap which is what I feel is happening. I will keep my distance and the emails to a minimum. I WILL NOT call her or email her directly myself if she emails I will respond but I wont be as the other post says a WUSS lol.

Maggie83 · Dec 26, 2007, 12:30 PM

Im hating xmas, this is my first on my own in six years all ive thought about is texting her even just to say merry xmas....i know i cant but i want to im missing her alot!!

Although ive been very busy the last few days, i mean this is the first time ive really sat down since yesterday morning all i want to do i speak to her, theres no real point i know and i know the more i text i lower myself but i just cant help feeling this way is!!

Is anyone else feeling the same?



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