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How about if we use this thread to count the NC days, all of us? Each one would mention how long he/she's been maintaining the NC period and how he/she feels with time.
Maybe in some way this can help us all (including me)?
This is my first NC day.. Afternoon here, so far didn't even touch my phone. I don't know how I feel, but I'm not that miserable, I have a goal and thinking about it, NOT HER!
Today marks the first week of NC.Yay
Losingit77, keeping the NC and not giving your power away is a fine advice but think of that : why not just politely and coldly wish him a happy birthday? There's nothing wrong with being a genuine nice person.And IF he tries to communicate after that- no.Keep NC.There - you were friendly.
yeah i am on this train.
Was really tempted to e-mail. "if when you think of me your hurt and stuff... doesn't this mean u still love me...?"
we broke up more than 3 month ago. and been on nc few times. once for two weeks than told my ex wasn't ready but than was contacted a week later.... than now we are on out 3rd NC. its been 3 weeks now. but i contacted my ex yesterday by text, which i am letting go :P
aiming for about 3 months before i try talking to my ex...
my ex has a new lover... i really want my ex back....
thing that worries me the most is them getting over me
this is when i panic... i think... maybe i am letting them go...
the problem is that... i dumped my ex and now i want them back. i have asked and my ex said no.
haha. and my ex did pretty much the NC technique so it differently works.
ok day 3 of no contact. and i woke up feeling decent.....weird. i mean shes still on my mind...but i dont feel like crap this morning. things are looking up?
bar a minor run in, in the street, its been 60 clear days of NC.
am i better, yes
do i miss her, yes
can i see a bright future for me despite the pain i went through, yes
did i die, no
did i feel crap for a fair while, yes
but im stil here, doing all good.
haven't met anybody that floats my boat just yet, but no hurry. i'm just glad that im so much better than i was, and i my day is no longer full of thoughts of her.
i miss my ex terribly, buts its just one of those things.
33 or 34 for me..I was fortunate enough to have broken the first run in of NC quite early and I got rejected outright..so sticking to it 2nd time around was alot easier than most people
I also deleted her phone number so that probably saved me several times when I was drunk...I have to go through my phone bills to find it and I dont think any drunk is capable of doing that
I wish i could delete his num off my ph i know it off my heart!!! it has been my downfall wayyyyy to many times!! My ex picked me up from the airport again this week, we kissed in the car was dumb felt like all over again plus toatally rejected. I am going on a movie date with a guy tonight who is really into me kind of freaks me out but will keep me distracted.
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