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Asked Feb 20, 2008, 07:39 AM — 41 Answers
My boyfriend of 11 years is the most lazy person I have ever met I pay all the bills and mortgage we have 4children and I provide evrything for them. He really gets on my nerves and I am at breaking point if I killed him which sometimes I have come close to would I get away withit

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Feb 20, 2008, 07:40 AM
No you would not get away with it! Especially since you posted it online
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Feb 20, 2008, 07:44 AM
WHOA! Slow down there! We all get angry with the people we love and we don't always approve of their choices they make in life, but murder is not the answer. If your relationship is that bad, may I suggest getting out of it? That would be the safe and easy way. Sometimes I feel like strangeling my lover, but all in all I would surley miss him if he were dead.

You have 4 children with this guy, you pay mortgage and all other bills and he is not giving a cent? Did you two make an agreement where you, the girlfriend, worked and he stayed home with the little ones?
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Feb 20, 2008, 07:48 AM
Yikes, this question is very inappropriate. I don't know whether or not this subject is considered okay on this site but personally I think this post should be deleted.

Having said that, no you would not get away with it, you'd go to jail for the rest of your natural life and your children would be without a mother or father. Seek professional help before you do something you will regret for the rest of your life.
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Feb 20, 2008, 08:19 AM
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Yikes, this question is very inappropriate. I don't know whether or not this subject is considered okay on this site but personally I think this post should be deleted.

Having said that, no you would not get away with it, you'd go to jail for the rest of your natural life and your children would be without a mother or father. Seek professional help before you do something you will regret for the rest of your life.

Wanted to give you a greenie but can't I agree delete this!
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Feb 20, 2008, 08:41 AM


Don't kill him, boot him out. Doesn't he work, or why not?
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Feb 20, 2008, 08:42 AM
I hope the "murder" question was somehow metaphorical. Some people feel like they could "kill" someone financially in court through a divorce.

If you are at a point where you are considering doing harm to someone, I urge you to seek counseling immediately. That would not be the way to solve any problems, and would certainly create more.
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Feb 20, 2008, 08:43 AM
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Don't kill him, boot him out. Doesn't he work, or why not?


She can't blame him because she allowed it to go on for 11 years... 11 years and still a boyfriend.. I guess he was too lazy to walk down the aisle.
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Feb 20, 2008, 08:48 AM


Um, you spent 11 years and had 4 kids with this loser? Now you want to make those kids orphans with him dead and you in jail?

Girl you need to get some professional help and FAST. You need to find the guts to throw him out and get out from under his thumb. You are an enabler and have enabled him all these years. You have to learn how to not be an enabler.
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Feb 20, 2008, 08:54 AM
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Originally Posted by nicki143
My boyfriend of 11 years is the most lazy person I have ever met I pay all the bills and mortgage we have 4children and I provide evrything for them. He really gets on my nerves and I am at breaking point if I killed him which sometimes I have come close to would I get away withit
If you got away with it, would you actually "get away" with it? Your conscience would never let you forget about it!
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