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Feb 20, 2008, 06:39 AM
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| | | Murder my boyfriend My boyfriend of 11 years is the most lazy person i have ever met i pay all the bills and mortgage we have 4children and i provide evrything for them. He really gets on my nerves and i am at breaking point if i killed him which sometimes i have come close to would i get away withit | | | | | | |
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Feb 20, 2008, 09:03 AM
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| i smell a troll. | |
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Feb 20, 2008, 09:10 AM
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| I can't believe someone would put up with 11 years of this behavior. Ain't that much love, in the whole world. | |
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Feb 20, 2008, 09:11 AM
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| the 11 years, I could take.
asking an entire web forum if she'll get away with murder...?
...possibly not the brightest crayon in the box. | |
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Feb 20, 2008, 09:19 AM
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| Quote: | Originally Posted by ISneezeFunny the 11 years, I could take.
asking an entire web forum if she'll get away with murder...?
...possibly not the brightest crayon in the box. |
lol... this is too funny.... | |
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Feb 20, 2008, 10:36 AM
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| Quote: | Originally Posted by nicki143 My boyfriend of 11 years is the most lazy person i have ever met i pay all the bills and mortgage we have 4children and i provide evrything for them. He really gets on my nerves and i am at breaking point if i killed him which sometimes i have come close to would i get away withit |
an umemployed dad who loves u is better than a dead one. what a nasty thing to ask. if u are not happy best thing to do is leave | |
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Feb 20, 2008, 10:40 AM
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| i would not exactly murder him would not give him satisfaction.
it is not he is to lazy to walk up the aisle i do not wanna get married and i would never marry him.
he has a job but but he is self employed and just goes when he wants and seems to have got in to a routine of not going.
i do hassle him to go but seem to get any joy no matter how much i cry and create.
but kill him i would not do just wondered if i would get away with it | |
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Feb 20, 2008, 10:41 AM
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| Quote: | Originally Posted by katrina27 an umemployed dad who loves u is better than a dead one. what a nasty thing to ask. if u are not happy best thing to do is leave |
He is employed and if he loved me he would not put everything on me have tryed to get rid of him | |
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Feb 20, 2008, 10:44 AM
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| why stay with him? | |
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Feb 20, 2008, 11:11 AM
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| Quote: | Originally Posted by nicki143 i would not exactly murder him would not give him satisfaction.
it is not he is to lazy to walk up the aisle i do not wanna get married and i would never marry him.
he has a job but but he is self employed and just goes when he wants and seems to have got in to a routine of not going.
i do hassle him to go but seem to get any joy no matter how much i cry and create.
but kill him i would not do just wondered if i would get away with it |
so why are you complaining about this again? you don't want to marry him, you would never marry him, he is lazy, you have to hassle him to do things? why are you in this relationship? Financially he is not supporting you? emotionally is an obvious and he doesnt take care of the kids... If you say you are doing this all alone why not leave? just sounds redundant. .WHy are you with him? Hell your doing it on your own now.. whats the difference if he is out of the picture, if he did work and did things it seems it wouldnt matter any way because you don't want to be with him.. Why are you waisting time... GET out! For your own sanity | |
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Feb 20, 2008, 11:19 AM
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| Um, when you start having homicidal fantasies maybe that would be a sign it's time for you to get out of that relationship? Of course you won't get away with it, esp. after you posted it online! Your kids would lose a two parents, one deal and one in jail for life. If you are that unhappy. leave him. Talk to a counselor about how you are feeling. If you're feeling like you want to get violent with him, you need to get help for yourself right away! Talk to a doctor or counselor. | |
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