Hi hope anyone can help me, so confused what i should do now!
Basically i've been seeing this girl on and off for the last 2 years, she's 20 i'm 26. We werent really bf / gf more of just meeting up and having fun. One day she wanted more and not just being a girl i'd spend the night with. We did give it a go but i got mixed feelings, i was worried about her age and what people thought, she was always pretty quiet and we only used to go down the local pub where she worked and i drunk in there. So i called it quits, few weeks later i started seeing my ex from years ago, she's at uni and went travelling over the summer so i ended up getting back with the 20 year old after lots of grovelling! I told her i thought she was the best girl in the world etc etc which i truly do mean and lucky for me i got her back. This is now where the trouble starts...........my ex from years ago came back from travelling and suprised me in town one night and when i saw her i realised i still had strong feelings for her, so yet again i ended it with the 20 year old and really hurt her this time. Since then my ex has gone back to uni and we are a couple but i cant let go the 20 year old, i think about her most days, see her up the pub when she's working and think to myself have i made a mistake? I have tried to talk to her but she just says she's moving on and doesnt want anything from me, i've messed her about too many times. I'm so confused if i have made the right decision, she is such a lovely girl and i didnt treat her right, suppose it might be guilt too. I txt her last night saying i miss you and u looked lovely tonight but i didnt get a reply. Should i just leave her alone? Should i try and get back back? Or am i just being a complete idiot?! and be happy that i'm back with my ex who i really like? If you can help please let me know!
You shouldnt be with anyone if you re as confused as you come across from reading your post.
The girl wants you to leave her alone so you leave her alone.
As for the person you keep calling your ex if you cant make your mind up you re not being fair trying to have a relationship with her either.
I have tried to talk to her but she just says she's moving on and doesnt want anything from me, i've messed her about too many times.
She's right. You've messed with her mind too many times. It's time to LEAVE HER ALONE. If you keep talking to her, you're just going to keep confusing her.
You sound extremely confused about what you want. You definitely need to stay single for a while to sort out your personal issues.
She's right. You've messed with her mind too many times. It's time to LEAVE HER ALONE. If you keep talking to her, you're just going to keep confusing her.
You sound extremely confused about what you want. You definitely need to stay single for a while to sort out your personal issues.
I know i'm just wondering if i've made a massive mistake and really stuffed it all up! I want both and that isnt fair, ok i'm gonna split with her and be single. After that and my mind is straight perhaps i can work out who i want or find someone new
Well buddy put it this way... what if you were on the receiving end of all this drama. How would you feel? What would you want? Again, think of this from her side.
It sounds like it's time to take some time for you and figure things out. You've just bounced back and forth between 2 girls and from the sound of it you didn't take the time to get over either one. Of course you're confused now. Who wouldn't be in this situation?
It sounds like it's time to take some time for you and figure things out. You've just bounced back and forth between 2 girls and from the sound of it you didn't take the time to get over either one. Of course you're confused now. Who wouldn't be in this situation?
Thanks for your reply, i know i used to get on so well with the 20 year old having a laugh but she hardly says hi now but what do i expect!!? Of course she's gonna be like that! Just hope i havent missed out on something really special....your right i need my time now and not think about all this mess i've created
Untill you really know what you want. kid stop playing around with peoples feelings and grow up..
Oh and the age thing 20 to 26?
you insane?
where do you live? worried about what people will think?
i think you should worry about the what the women in this story think of you.
My advice stands
Grow Up. Learn what you want
Leave these poor girls alone
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