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Asked Sep 22, 2011, 03:46 PM — 15 Answers
Me and my ex broke up in march 2011 but we continued to talk and act like we was together until one night when we got into an argument and this was in August. We had a great relationship but we did fight sometimes....I don't know if he still loves me. I'm pretty sure he still cares but I can't seem to get over him. H came to my birthday dinner and we had not talked prior. He gave me a card with some money. I miss him and I want to be back with him but I don't think he feels the same I'm not sure. When I ask can I come over he says no in the politest way because I don't think he wants to catch feelings all over again...what can I do to show him I still love him and want to be with him?

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Sep 24, 2011, 04:07 AM
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I think he sort of knows by my actions that I'm still not over him but I think the reason he doesn't want to be around me is because he's still not over me! His birthday is coming up and I was going to make him his favorite cake and bring it to his house...is that a good or bad idea?
Bad idea.
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Sep 24, 2011, 10:18 AM


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I think he sort of knows by my actions that I'm still not over him but I think the reason he doesn't want to be around me is because he's still not over me! His birthday is coming up and I was going to make him his favorite cake and bring it to his house...is that a good or bad idea?
Lousy idea, because if you are right, he isn't over you, but he is trying to GET OVER you, then he doesn't want you, and WANTS to move on. Why can't you let him, if thats what you think he is trying to do???

Oh, thats right, you want him back, whether he wants to come back, or NOT?!
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Sep 25, 2011, 07:08 PM
maybe he feels like you are better without him he has to many issues to work out or something it also take two to make a relationship work you will find that one & then be happy that it did not work out
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Sep 25, 2011, 10:44 PM
Maybe he feels like he is being stalked and does not have any breathing room?
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Sep 26, 2011, 09:01 PM
Maybe you are all right the only one that really knows how he feels is him and GOD but i thank you all for your advice and comments...if its meant to be it will if not then oh well!
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Sep 26, 2011, 09:17 PM
Broken up is broken up is broken up.

How many more times?

"the only one that really knows how he feels is him"

You got that right. Now be really smart.

Stop worrying about him.
Just you. The next chapter w/o him. Try it.



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