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Apr 16, 2007, 10:09 AM
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| | | 4 year relationship and no sex
I have been in a relationship for 4 years but my boyfriend dosen't wont sex. A cupple of weeks ago i had a miscarrage, I told him a week after but he didn't know was pregant to begen with. we only had sex 2 a month witch i didnt mind but he wont touch me now what do you think it mite be.
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Apr 17, 2007, 05:17 AM
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| Give him time. Talk and listen. |
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Apr 17, 2007, 05:19 AM
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Originally Posted by renabell I have been in a relationship for 4 years but my boyfriend dosen't wont sex. A cupple of weeks ago i had a miscarrage, I told him a week after but he didn't know was pregant to begen with. we only had sex 2 a month witch i didnt mind but he wont touch me now what do you think it mite be.
Thanks | He may be just as hurt as you are the miscarriage, have u discussed it between u? | |
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Apr 17, 2007, 05:20 AM
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| You know him better than we do. What do you think is the reason? Is there no physical contact at all? | |
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Apr 18, 2007, 06:29 AM
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Originally Posted by talaniman Give him time. Talk and listen. |
i've tryed talking before maybe its worth another go.
or maybe hes cheating! | |
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Apr 18, 2007, 06:40 AM
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Originally Posted by Emland You know him better than we do. What do you think is the reason? Is there no physical contact at all? |
i think the reason is hes bord he will lean on me, touch my hand or leg nothing more | |
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Apr 18, 2007, 07:04 AM
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| Could the pressure of your trying to have a baby, and the subsequent events have anything to do with it? You must learn how to talk to him. And assuming does neither of you any good. | |
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Apr 18, 2007, 07:30 AM
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Originally Posted by renabell i think the reason is hes bord he will lean on me, touch my hand or leg nothing more |
So, basically you are friends who have had sex only once or twice and that is because he is bored? Sorry to be so thick - I'm just trying to understand. | |
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Apr 18, 2007, 07:31 AM
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Originally Posted by talaniman Could the pressure of your trying to have a baby, and the subsequent events have anything to do with it? You must learn how to talk to him. And assuming does neither of you any good. |
every time i talk to him ask him whats rong he allways says i dont know its not you what is that ment to mean some how i allways say the rong thing or ask the rong questions. your right i must learn how to talk to him. | |
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Apr 18, 2007, 07:59 AM
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| [quote=Emland]So, basically you are friends who have had sex only once or twice and that is because he is bored? Sorry to be so thick - I'm just trying to understand.[/QUOT
we are meant to be a couple in love, we've been living together for 3 years and looking for a new house so he seams to be committed to me but he wont come near me sexually we still sleep in the same bed but he turns around so i can't talk or cuddle him. i love him and he says he loves me but theres no physical side to our relationship and i ant got a clue why | |
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