I'm 17 in high school. Recently moved from new York to somewhere else.

here goes:

Me and this girl met in kindergarten. we were best friends until i moved in 6th grade. every summer i went up to visit friends n family. we always chilled when i came up. 2 summers ago me her and two other friends were hanging out. me n her were kissing and then before i left she told me she loved me and i said it back because i really do love her. but the next day we were chillin with another one of her friends and her friend was all over me. we kissed (big mistake).now this girl told me she loved me. i couldn't resist her because she had more curves than the girl i told i loved. (i know I'm a retard). so the next day i call her and she ignores. so i go over her house n shes crying. i couldn't do anything so i sat there n just held her. eventually she told me to leave. i messed up big time. now i cant stop thinking about this girl and i really just wanna be with her. i love her. i feel like crap for what i did. i want her back. i haven't stopped thinking about her. i really love her n i really need help.

please someone I'm desperate.

Cat1864

When did all this happen?

Whether or not you told the second girl you love her is beside the point when you kissed her in front of the girl you "love" the day after you told her that you love her.

You may not like the advice, but, unfortunately, from what you said there isn't much we can say.

Are there any facts that you haven't given us?

Other than telling the second girl, "I love you", did I miss anything else that needs clarifying?

talaniman

Yeah you screwed up, but leave her alone for a while, and see if she gets over it, if she doesn't you do the right thing for yourself, learn your lesson and don't make that mistake again. There are no magic words to make it better, stop looking and suck it up and know better next time. She probably set you up to have an excuse to be mad.
Tell me, what kind of friend makes out with her friends boyfriend in front of her friend? <SET UP>

zippit

dude,these people took time ,thought and energy to respond to your post and this is what you say in return.you should be ashamed again GROW UP.

summer7

Hi, How can you not expect the reactions you are getting. You did this in front of the first girl. That is so insensitive. Oh, are we being insensitive?

califdadof3

Here is something you can try but you have to remember that there are no strings or expectations involved.

1) send flowers .. dont say I love you just say thinking of you.

2) send a day or 2 later a hand written letter. No text speak but a true letter and tell her that you apllogize for acting like a pig etc and tell her your feelings.

If you recieve no reply within 2 weeks then go with the no contact direction and consider it over forever.

Other then those 2 attempts do nothing else to contact her and be prepared to move on. Some things just cant be forgiven.

talaniman

I would be curious to know if she is still friends with this girl.