My boyfriend and some of his harley riding buddies took off last Friday for a guy only trip. I am the only girlfriend or wife that rides her own bike and feel ripped off that I could not go away for the long weekend. My boyfriend before he left said he didn't understand why I couldn't go and why girls aren't allowed, but I notice that this didn't stop him from going. Okay so I got over it and the long weekend is over, but they are not going to be back for another 8 days and it totally sucks. I went for a couple of bike rides on the weekend . but it isn't much fun by yourself. So why are girls not allowed is it so that the men are able to flirt and mess around?? What is this all about when men go away for a holiday with a bunch of other guys?? I really don't believe that my boyfriend would be unfaithful to me , but it makes me wonder why women aren't allowed ....what do men do all by themselves ??? MEN??!!

Echoz

You know what they say, boys will be boys. Sometimes guys just want to get away with their other male buddies and do well ... manly things. This does not imply that your guy is going off just so he can flirt and mess around with other girls, and it's very good that you trust him.

At least he would have let you gone if it wasn't for the fact that 'girls aren't allowed'. I'd be worried if he flat out said no, you can't go, but that wasn't the case.

It's so hard to describe men, very diffifulct creatures to deal with.