I don't think that about all men...just the players.


THEIR GAMES...an open letter and opinion piece

Dear Mr. Player,

I’m sure they call you "the man" in your clique, but in actuality you’re an ***hole. When you see a young, innocent, and sensitive woman like myself, what really goes through your head? Am I easy? Am I your meal ticket? What am I to you? I attract you for whatever reason. You say all the right things, tell me what I want to hear, yeah you’re a sweet talker, you have a way with words. Some may call you the modern day Shakespeare. You have charisma... a real charmer you are. But don’t be mistaken, you are a pig. A nasty little oinker. People like you are like a sore that never heals...it just festers. You prey after the innocent and vunerable...what does that REALLY say about you? I never understood why you fellas feel as though you need to play mind games with women, especially the young and innocent ones. Ok, so a guy like you could say that a woman allowed them the opportunity to take advantage of them, but that is nonesense. You’re sick. Do you play these games with your mother, your sister, your daughter, your aunt, your grandmother? Would you want a guy to play these games with the women (woman) you life? If you have answered I don’t know, I don’t care, I never thought about it or yes...then walk yourself to the nearest institution...reality check, you need help.

Let me give you a word of advice. Life is a b****, no pun intended, and the things you do to others will come back to haunt you. Karma has that funny way of catching up. Treat people the way you would want to be treated no matter how easy it may to take advantage of them. You are playing games with someones daughter, mother, sister, aunt, cousin, niece, WHATEVER! It’s not right. People like you suffer from self-esteem issues. You use games as a way to bring women down. Men like you are not man enough to stand behind a good woman. A good woman scares you so you do what you can to make things more comfortable for you by devaluing her self-worth!

What sick pleasure do you get out of leading a woman on and then disposing of us like trash? ***NEWS FLASH*** I am not trash, we are not trash, and should not be treated as such. I am a jewel, a princess, and a commodity that is so rare I should be treasured. If you valued anything in your life, Mr. Player, you would understand that concept. Instead, you’re such an ignaramous, your mind is that of a peion. It’s small. You are a small indivdiual who has small thoughts. People like you think you are so smart but in reality you will never experience true love. You don’t know how to give love. What a terrible life you will live...always chasing for something you will never get. Why, because you are too busy playing women when in actuality you are only playing yourself.

AmExp

Pregnant? Ohhh noooo nooo nooo! That would be a terrible situation...I would be tied to him forever!

Scleros

Um, see a connection?

AmExp

What do you mean?

Romefalls19

Brunette - Now, I would never be mean to you sweetheart...:-) I apologize if it came off that way as it was not intended. I just wanted to point out that both sexes are capable of doing the most heinius acts possible to each other.

AmExp - Trust me, I wish I could meet a girl that didn't question my motives. That would actually look past her guard and actually see that "hey this guy actually wants a relationship not a random hook up" That's never been me, and never will. I would just feel dirty going girl to girl. I like the comfort of someone being there, knowing you have someone to fall back on. But hey, for now I'm just gonna do me and let the pieces fall into place themself

AmExp

Rome---right. I guess the hypothesis is true that when you "search for someone" you never find "Mr. or Ms. Right" but when you just live life and as you say "let the pieces fall into place" I think the chances for success is greater. Did you have some one play you?

bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE

I know women who are players themselves so the statment is most definitely true.

Romefalls19

Yea, I had someone play me...My first actual "relationship" was that. Not too mention the girl I was starting to show interest in is trying to play me. So I am very much into this debate from personal expierence

Scleros

A) If you're truly that rare a jewel and exude that vibe, only a player would have the confidence to approach you, because he doesn't care about the long term outcome.

B) I've known a few self-proclaimed princesses. It's now a red-flag for me. The consistent theme in their relationships was unrealistic expectations which led them to get sucked in completely by any prince charming who swept them off their feet by stroking their ego.



bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE: I'm saying that the application of the label of princess should be reserved for the guy. Any woman that thinks herself a princess is approaching relationships from the wrong perspective and with perhaps unrealistic expectations and therefore open to manipulation.

jolienoire

Dear Broken heart,

You breathe in the congested air of aggravation
Smoggy stagnate suffocation of frustration
You feel betrayed and all you gave was your heart
Don’t let that man take that apart
It seems that with every single oppressive breath
Your one step closer to your emotional death
Gasping for air in the race for happiness, love, and wealth
You realize that true happiness lies within yourself
Don’t let heart ache leave your inhibitions to die
You emerge and spread your wings and start to fly.
Don’t fret my friend your heart should remain in tact.
Because whatever he has done karma will get him back
You lived you learn you must now be strong,
Never stop loving to your potential
Because someone did you wrong.
In order to win this fight
Forgive this man and move on with your life.
No blaming yourself, and don’t blame every man
You could be missing the good one who may one day take your hand, hold your heart,.
Just be patient and never change who you are! You fell this time, but he didn’t win, but as long as you don’t let it happen again.

bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE

I have not been played before but can only imagine what it feels like.

I have been hurt so that sort of ties along with getting played.
Getting played=Hurt

Romey, I have read a lot of your posts and are so estatic with the kind of person you are: understanding, compromising, sweet and a real gentlemen! Whoever finds you will be so luckey to have you. And you aren't that much older than me. Guys around my age are so immature and don't give two sh*ts about feelings. You are truely one of a kind!