Originally Posted by Sloki

I am involved with a married man and have been for almost two years. I love him greatly. I totally understand the terrible look this is and I honestly dont desire to have him leave his family infact I think I make it very easy for him to be involved with me and maintain his home. Unlike what we are used to cheating men doing he does not and has never made empty promises or demands. He is not attached to me for finance neither am I to him. Our relationship began as a friendship and went to a just sexual it is what it is relationship and now this. I dont require a lot he offers his time love and body willingly. We have developed into best friends that share everything. He is with me so much everyday, he knows my kids and family and they love him just like me, it like everyone recognizes us as a couple. My sister says the timing was off for us. He is living a double life he doesnt hide my existance from friends and family they are well aware of me. I recently built a home and had a Xmas party at my new home and they all came. I find it very hard to believe that I allowed myself to become so involved with him considering his status, I am recently divorced (2 1/2 yrs.) and my spouse was not faithful. It hurt so much! I find myself even though I would never want him to leave and never pressure him too, desiring more but I would never verbalize that. I do feel cheated sometimes not often though, just major events like plays and etc. that come to town. i desire more but im caught up. I think of my self as a home recker in one aspect but much different in another. Their relationship is lacking and I find myself making sure I give him what he is missing not sexually but mentally and companinship and conversation wise. I make suggestions on ways to improve his home life with no problem but im not improving my own home life. What am I teaching my daughter and son. Its not a good look and I realize that. I want to move on and create a life the right way but I guess Im afraid of loosing my friend. Im not looking for a pitty party or sympathy just real advice.

Signed a single woman living a not so single life with a not so single man......