I don't think that about all men...just the players.


THEIR GAMES...an open letter and opinion piece

Dear Mr. Player,

I’m sure they call you "the man" in your clique, but in actuality you’re an ***hole. When you see a young, innocent, and sensitive woman like myself, what really goes through your head? Am I easy? Am I your meal ticket? What am I to you? I attract you for whatever reason. You say all the right things, tell me what I want to hear, yeah you’re a sweet talker, you have a way with words. Some may call you the modern day Shakespeare. You have charisma... a real charmer you are. But don’t be mistaken, you are a pig. A nasty little oinker. People like you are like a sore that never heals...it just festers. You prey after the innocent and vunerable...what does that REALLY say about you? I never understood why you fellas feel as though you need to play mind games with women, especially the young and innocent ones. Ok, so a guy like you could say that a woman allowed them the opportunity to take advantage of them, but that is nonesense. You’re sick. Do you play these games with your mother, your sister, your daughter, your aunt, your grandmother? Would you want a guy to play these games with the women (woman) you life? If you have answered I don’t know, I don’t care, I never thought about it or yes...then walk yourself to the nearest institution...reality check, you need help.

Let me give you a word of advice. Life is a b****, no pun intended, and the things you do to others will come back to haunt you. Karma has that funny way of catching up. Treat people the way you would want to be treated no matter how easy it may to take advantage of them. You are playing games with someones daughter, mother, sister, aunt, cousin, niece, WHATEVER! It’s not right. People like you suffer from self-esteem issues. You use games as a way to bring women down. Men like you are not man enough to stand behind a good woman. A good woman scares you so you do what you can to make things more comfortable for you by devaluing her self-worth!

What sick pleasure do you get out of leading a woman on and then disposing of us like trash? ***NEWS FLASH*** I am not trash, we are not trash, and should not be treated as such. I am a jewel, a princess, and a commodity that is so rare I should be treasured. If you valued anything in your life, Mr. Player, you would understand that concept. Instead, you’re such an ignaramous, your mind is that of a peion. It’s small. You are a small indivdiual who has small thoughts. People like you think you are so smart but in reality you will never experience true love. You don’t know how to give love. What a terrible life you will live...always chasing for something you will never get. Why, because you are too busy playing women when in actuality you are only playing yourself.

bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE

Every woman is a diamond that needs constant shining

I'm begining to think that you are the 'player' and have taken advantage of these 'rare jewels'.

Can you tell me where you came up with the above statement please because I very much disagree with you.

AmExp

I agree with you too Beautiful! EVERY WOMEN DESERVES A GOOD MAN! That comment was very shady that he or she made. I feel as though that person may have an ulterior motive to say something like that.

jolienoire

Well you must have met some cubic zirconia, the vulnerable ones that tend to loose their shine and lack value, the outside looks good but is really worthless.

.. Because A true Jewel, is more than appealing in appearance it is priceless in value.. and only those grateful of its worth can appreciate that..

So I think you need to change the location as to where you are finding your jewels..

AmExp

LOL @ Jolie's comment! That is the TRUTH!

jolienoire

lol... I can get creative too...

Scleros

LOL, I'm as far on the other end of the spectrum as possible.


Any woman that thinks herself female perfection incarnate, is likely to be very intimidating to any regular guy that might actually care what she thinks, afterall nothing is too good for her, she's a princess! He'll have endless opportunities every day to not meet her expectations. The player on the other hand will use her self-absorption to his own advantage feeding her what she wants to hear until he tires and moves on.


They weren't my jewels, but would lament to me how their crummy boyfriends weren't treating them like the "princess" they were. "Oh, where's my prince!"


Exactly, that's why self-proclaimed princess status is a red flag. Jewels tend to desire pedestals, but how do you make a rock that thinks it's a diamond feel like more than a diamond? Rocks are happy wherever they are, and especially content if treated like a diamond. This rock's looking for another well-rounded rock for which we can both be each other's "diamond".

Now that I've pissed off all the jewels here by daring to threaten their jewelness, I'll see if I can find a player to swing by to affirm that I'm an idiot and that indeed flowers bloom from every woman's footsteps. You'll be completely enthralled by what he tells you since it will be exactly what you're thinking. How could it not be true?

N0help4u

Just tell 'em "I ain't no easy sleazy, no sloppy seconds,and don't want N0 dead end relationship. You can get them a dime a dozen down the road. Start hikin' if I ain't to your likin'!"

jolienoire

You didn't piss me off at all, your just venting because your hurt, and you are allowed to, but hey sometimes we have to pick the wrong ones, to get closer to the right ones, Life sometimes take involving risk, and sure we all will encounter some scum bags whether it be male or female... its apart of living and life to prepare us for the work ahead... I was attracted and married to the wrong guy it wasn't but it had nothing to do with me believing I was the perfect princess it had everything to do with him being the wrong man... Understand that in relationships people are bringing out their representatives during the honey moon phase and we get mislead sometimes, but in the end we may get hurt but as long as we maintained our ROYALTY and LOYALTY by staying the princess we dared to be, and respected our relationship then their is no need to apologize for the male being an A__ hole... thats just my opinion, I will not apologize because someone else is a cheater.. Or feel less of a woman because I picked the wrong partner and because I experienced that I can help others to not go in that direction..
THe END and this is my FAIRY TALE.

Scleros

Makes it easy to dismiss my observations if I'm damaged doesn't it? Unfortunately, I don't seem to be the lone quack - The 'Princess Effect' - The Daily of the University of Washington

I find the whole princess complex fascinating. When/how/by whom does it get instilled in a female? It must be unique to female experience because I don't hear guys complaining that their girlfriend doesn't treat them like the prince they are; or, leaving their girl because "she doesn't treat me like a prince." I don't think I've ever heard a man refer to himself as a prince.

N0help4u

guess you haven't ran into many prince*s in your life

Yes unfortunately many of us girls do fall for the princess fairy tale.
Instead we get the frog that the kisses don't work on!