When your significant other asks for space or a break, it's in all of our nature to almost instantly go running to them. It's hard to rationalize how not caring and being distant could actually bring them back, but try to use the logic on yourself. They are asking for space, which is sort of sending you the message they don't care. What do you do? RUN STRAIGHT TO THEM. What happens when you send them the message you're moving on? THEY RUN STRAIGHT BACK

momincali

We need to make this an automatic reply on these kinds of posts...

lamchopness

It's so true. Laws of attraction.

It's also true that when you're in the thick of it relationship wise...it's like a paper bag is over your head and you can't think or see straight to save your life. All rational thought goes out the window.

Wildcat21

People Want What They Can't Have.

Challenge.

Break these habits.

prt

You cant be more right

dudya07

will someone explain me how to revearse it? any tricks to prevent this happening?

Skell

It isnt about tricks or games.

Having a healthy and BALANCES relationship with lots of open communication will be your best prevention to having too many problems in a relationship!

No tricks. Just honesty!

dudya07

I am all for it, but it doesn't always work that way. it didn't with me, i think that it is some people's nature to create drama, some like to be asked and like to play games. i think if you need space, you really need it, ... you won't change your mind right when the other person has given you your space, you start playing tricks to get the person back....some people just don't know what they want. it is a torture.

Morrolan

That is great in theory, but rare in practice. Honesty, loyalty, and communication are my three biggest criteria for a relationship. It's very odd that communication is the hardest to have, at least in my experience.

talaniman

Reality, That first love is all fireworks and sparklers and we don't have a clue what to do, but feel good. Its also a great teacher if we learn from that first breakup. As we grow and get to know ourselves we don't feel as stupid or caught up in the moment and deal with those breakup a whole lot better and seem to recover a lot quicker, if we remember the earlier lessons, and put on a helmet before we run headfirst into the brick wall. If we don't then we get our heads busted until we do remember that dang gone helmet. But as we go along thru life we find the one, who we know is the one, and unfortunately that's when we realise that love is a hell of a lot of work and that helmet ain't helping nothing at all, so we take it off and get our heads busted again, DANG it. Now as I, ME got older and realise oops forgot the dang gone helmet again. Don't run head first into the wall at full speed. Walk up to it and look for the door. You can live without the helmet, but you damn better have a key to the door.