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shruthi2890 · Mar 14, 2010, 12:50 AM

Me and my boyfriend were together for 3years but suddenly we broke up a few days back.and the reason he gave was that I did not gave importance to him in our relationship.but it was never so although I was pretty dominant.I still love him and can't get out of it.is there anyway that I can get back to him?

bswc · Mar 14, 2010, 02:23 AM

There should be a problem regarding the breakup, a long term one, take some time off and rethink the past, put yourself in his shoe.

amicon · Mar 14, 2010, 02:33 AM

It seems his feelings changed and you need to accept that its over.

There is no magic wand that will bring him back.

Read the stickies at the top of the relationship page for good advice on how to handle a breakup.

I wish · Mar 14, 2010, 06:59 AM

The reason he gave you at the break up might not be the full story. If he was ready to break up with you, it means that he's been contemplating it for a while. It may seem sudden to you, but it was not sudden for him.

Actions speak louder than words. The bottom line is that he stopped waiting to try to work things out with you.

I know it's easier said than done, but you should avoid communicating with him to avoid adding to the confusion and prolonging the suffering.

Devorameira · Mar 14, 2010, 08:27 AM

Be honest with yourself. Did you do enough in your relationship? If your answer is yes, then maybe he is pure jerk and you need to just let him go, and find someone else who appreciates you.

If the answer is no, you're still going to have to just let him go. Wish I could tell you differently, but there's nothing you can do to bring him back to you. Only time will tell if he comes back on his own. Just don't count on him returning.

talaniman · Mar 14, 2010, 10:32 AM

You have been given some great advice, and I agree 100%, that you should take a lot of time to let the emotional dust settle, so you can see things clearly, through the healing process.

That's would mean leaving him alone, until you recover from the shock of the break up, and the emotions that come with accepting you have been dumped.