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i've been messing with a married guy for the last 3 yrs...and even tho i know he's married i love him and i believe he loves me...i put up wih his crap, but he doesn't want me to date/talk to another man even tho he's married and lives with his wife...i tried to leave him a few times, but he ends up buying me back....why is he so selfish? why can't i have someone on the side too? how do i leave him for good?
thanks you guys...great advice and i am going to take it...he's left 18 messages on my home phone with in the last 24 hrs...he keeps telling me he's going to 'f' me up...he said he was going to park down the street and watch my place for any men comin in or out...then tats when he's going to make his move and 'f" us up...he said he will turn the cell phone on if i answer his calls...i am good...dont need him...or his cell phone...but i am still going to stay with my grandmother for a few days...just until the locks are changed
Rusty: I said not to run to the wife because telling her about the affair will do nothing but hurt her. Now it has become apparent that this guy could be dangerous, and I have NOTHING against going to the police for protection. Yes, if a suit is filed, she will find out, but personally telling his wife is not an acceptable way to deal with this problem. If anything, it will exacerbate the problem.
Kaharie: I agree with rusty that you should tell people who need to know, but only those who need to know...at this point I'd say that's the local police department, your family and a handful of close friends. You and your daughter have the right to live normal lives, without fear of being beaten or killed by an a-hole like this guy.
Guys i did it....i called the cops on him...yesterday i went to my house to get me and my kid some clothes and he came over...i really believe he's been following me...well anyway he started taking the clothes he bought for me and my kid, throwing them all over outside...telling me if i didn't take him back that we would be naked as the day we were born... we got into a huge fight, i mean a fist fight!!!...if it wasn't for my neighbor he was going to run me over with his truck...he called me everything under the sun...b's, whores...u name it, he called it...he told me he was going to KILL ME!! my neighbor witnessed his threats...i called the cops and they put a warrant out for his arrest...i wont lie he beat me up, but i WILL press charges on his you know what...i am really out done right now...and i filed for a protectin order too....
Oh my goodness. I'm sorry you went through this, but now you really have evidence, you know what king of person he is and you are now away from him. I will keep you and your daughter in my prayers.
Good for you girl!
ty homegirl...i am just sorry i had to learn this way....but it could have been worst...my kid asked what happen to my face and i told her i was in an accident...was i wrong for lying? should i tell her the truth?
thanks AGB...she really likes him and he's good to her...we just cant get along...he's been calling...begging me not press charges against him....yeah right....he told me if we get a male judge he will understand why he put a foot up my azz....he has pictures of me going out to clubs dress "like a whore" and f****** every tom and hank, so he puts it...he said he kept all the rent receipt and receipts for things he bought for me and my child... i am spending his money while f****** another man....will this hold up in court? altho it's not true?
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