me and my girlfriend been through a lot.break up to break up.And i have maid a lot of bad choices and mistakes.The thing is ive made the same mistakes over and over, but i do love my woman and been trying to consitently make things good between us both.She dont believe that i love herwhen i say it and mean it. and its because all i have done.There is also no trust in our relationship and inccidents have happen where i ask where i dont believe her and she would respond with uv done a lot of things and that i didnt have to call u and let u know where i was at i couldva said fu** it i dont care.its hard for me to trust because of all the things ive done.im young she has a pretty decent amount of yrs on me and i always find that im always the wrong and she is rarely no never i mean never wrong out of our 2yr plus relationship and i was wondering if she was smart enough and with her experience finding away tomake like im wrong.she says its because i dont think and i jump da gun.but i dont know?? What i really wanted to know whats ALL the signs that she may leave me???? and whats the signs that all of u helpdesk would look for n a cheating love one????what should i do??

Homegirl 50

From the sound of it I'd say this relationship does not stand a chance. Too many, what ifs, does she love me , I don't trust you, you're always wrong. Too many negatives.
I'd advise you both to say good bye, and move on.

GlindaofOz

She doesn't trust you or believe you because your actions don't match what you say. You say you love her but you run around on her and make other mistake. To a woman that says I don't love you I love me.

It doesn't seem you guys have a lot to stand on.

coolbrezzeb

well glindao what should i do.where should i start because we both want tob with each other.recently what got me is when she said that i dont give her da time to let the mistakes iv made ride because i go n do sumthing else......maybe she got apoint but i still think about and i say how could ive have been made to always b wrong all da time.what gives

GlindaofOz

Man up. If you say you love her act like it. Treat her right. Cherish your relationship and work on communicating with her and boosting trust levels. Ask her what she needs from you in order to trust you and feel as if she is truly loved. Then do it. You should be talking to her not us. Believe me if you say to her "what can I do to make you feel loved and cherished?" she will jump at the opportunity.

coolbrezzeb

well glindao what should i do.where should i start because we both want tob with each other.recently what got me is when she said that i dont give her da time to let the mistakes iv made ride because i go n do sumthing else......maybe she got apoint but i still think about and i say how could ive have been made to always b wrong all da time.what gives

coolbrezzeb

i ddidnt know what to do thats why icame to u guys thanks i think u helped