Ok, i went out with this girl for almost three years, we loved eachother very much. She broke up with me in the the middle of July. She said she got sick of me putting her second to everything else, i called her names, and i didnt treat her right. I didnt realize how bad it hurt her until it was too late. Blahhhh!!!!!! A week after the break up, I made her a romantic dinner and bought her a ring to say im sorry and take me back. It didnt work, she said no. From then on i kept bothering her and calling her or texting or emailing her about how much I love her. I never gave her the space she needed. She went away to college (about a 2 hour drive away) on August 15th. About 3 weeks later i found out she had a new boyfriend who lives in the same town as a I do. I though to myself, "What!!!!???" How can this be? Dont forget i never gave her the space that she needed. As of a week ago i agreed to leave her alone. So, I mean is this a rebound guy or did she get over me that fast? I want her back really bad, what should I do?

CaptainRich

You're young. Move on and find someone available and more intuned to you and your needs. Rebound guy or not...she's movin' onward. You should too...

nicespringgirl

She wants more than you can give.
To many women especially when they are young, not mature enough, LOVE MEANS BE LOVED.
That's not fair for men. Give her sometime and meanwhile enjoy the fun stuff you do, love will come along.

crazyfighter96

Ok what are you suggesting? What do you mean giver her sometime? Will she come back?

talaniman

I think you take the lessons learned here and move on, and don't make the same mistakes again.
As bad a you treated her there is no telling and it doesn't matter.
Forget it. You acted to selfish and disrespectful, to deserve a second chance. No way!!!

s_cianci

Sounds like she got over you that fast. I know I would have. Sorry to be so blunt but right now I think you need to work on yourself and seek some serious therapy to uncover whatever underlying issues cause you to be verbally and emotionally abusive to people. You're about as ready for a relationship as I am ready to compete in gymnastics in the next Olympics!

Dennis777

Hello.

He could be the rebound Guy but at this point it doesn't matter. You made a mistake and now your having to deal with it. This is life and we have to live with our mistakes, hope and pray that we can learn from them and not make them over and over. At this point there is no way of knowing if she will come back so take a step back and start your life over with what you have learned. I know she is the one in your mind right now but give it some time and you will find another Mrs. Right. In fact you will find a number Mrs. Rights before you have the ability to know who your real Mrs. Right is.

Dennis777

crazyfighter96

haha its funny how everyone thinks they know me and situation.

nkychic

This happens to everyone! Now use what you've learned and move on. You ask "Did she get over me that quick?" You helped by pushing her further away. You said yourself you didn't give her the space she needs. Move on. Waiting for this girl is not going to serve you anything but heartache. Let her live her life, and you take what you've learned and live yours. This will help you in future relationship. LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES, DON'T RELIVE THEM!

Good luck!

Ash123

Ok, Crazy - here's what I see 1-10:

1) He is a not really a rebound guy
2) He is a boyfriend guy
3) I am glad you were honest here. That shows you will do better next time.
4) I do not think you are gonna get her back
5) I do think you will find another girl and you will have learned some lessons on how to be a good boyfriend.
6) Sometimes women WILL date a guy they don't love to get over another - but I don't think she seemed that in love - and she went to college 2 hours away.
7) hang in there
8) Find a new girl
9) IF the other girl is your soulmate, life will bring her back years down the road
10) Don't EVER be shocked by how fast a woman can move on if you give her the chance.

peace