[SIZE=4]Im 13, and Im probably the only one in here over the age of 12 that hasnt made out with anyone. My boyfriend is 15, so hes been thru that, so he wants to make out with me, but everytime he tries, I back away, because I dont know what to do! Can anyone help me here?[/SIZE]

casers

First of all, dont listen to that other reply...you are too young to even consider doin that. If you arent ready to do that with your boyfriend then dont. if your boyfriend doesnt like that you dont want to, then break up with him. you need someone to respect how you feel about things. tell him how you feel, and he should stop, but if he keeps tryin to make out with you, then break up with him. make out with him when YOU ARE READY. dont just do it cuz you know that would make HIM happy. you are only 13, there is plenty of time for you to prepare for it.

missqueenb

oh my sweet marrissa!

kudos to you for resisting your horny 15 year old b.f......continue to resist him until you feel the time is right, which will probablly not be for another 5 years...trust me, i made the mistake of giving my precious virginity to a guy who was 17 when i was 12 because he pressured me....the outcome? i have a child out of wedlock, who is almost ten, i never got the opporitunity to go away to college like i dreamed, cause i had a baby to care for, ( even though i did finish school in my hometown, i have a bachelors degree in liberal arts) and not only if you give your body to him so early will you not know the real pleasures of making love, but you will just become a notch on his 15 year old belt....trust me, 15 year old boys dont fall in love, they fall in lust, and they tell everyone they encouner about him "poking" you...... also, dear that bullshti that that dr. posted is a crock! do not allow this little boy to get his rocks off by subjecting you to the humiliation of behaving like a young tramp just to satisfy his erection.....! tell him if and since he can't wait for you to decide when you will allow him the "PLEASURE" of exploring your body, then he can go #uck a warm watermelon!!!! do not let him take you innocence because he will not respect you the day after, and nor will you repsect youself for lying down with him against you will!!!!!!save your virginity for someone who is worthy of your greatness!!!!!not some little hot tailed boy whom you will not remember in 10 years!!!!stay sweet baby.......missqueenb

kissableteen

hey, I suggest that you wait. I waited to atleast kiss a guy until I was almost 15. I am now 16 almost 17 and by making out you only make it worse. Each and everytime it gets harder and harder to say no to sex when most of the time you really want it. So dont rush yourself it isnt worth it

Jahiem28

HI 13 years old is too young to be having sex. I commend you for telling your boyfriend your not ready. First of all we live in a different world now. 35 years ago a young girl only fear was getting pregnant. Now they have to deal with AIDS. It does not matter how young or old you are once you get HIV(AIDS) you have it for life. Please go to school and get your education so you can live a wonderful life. Cause there is alot you do not know when it comes to having sex. take care GOOD LUCK

siobhan

I hadn't made out when I was 13, either! I didn't even start dating until I was nearly 17, and that's okay! The whole "making out" thing is overrated--until you feel ready, don't do it. Just say calmly and firmly to your boyfriend, "I don't want to do this." He should respect you and your person, and if he doesn't, then he isn't worth having around. Wait a few years! And later on, find a good guy (not one as forward as this one!) who'll be patient with you and "show you the ropes"--slowly.

justjamestx

Marissa,
You have your whole life ahead of you. So my advise to you is to learn the word NO!!! Practice the NO word as often as you can. If you boyfriend presists, then tell him to talk to the hand,, and dont let the door hit him on the way out. It is sad to hear the pressure that you have upon you so early, but what you must demand from boys is RESPECT!!! So you set that boy striaght,, and keep up the pratice,, for there will be more to follow. Just NO ,, NO,,, NO,, NO... and say it often.

Good Luck

Meb

Everyone here is commending you for pushing him away and immediately calling your boyfriend a horny predator but I didn't get that vibe from your post. If you want to try making out tell him you need him to teach you and show you how. Let him know that you are scared and that's why you're hesitating. Learning how can be a fun thing if you two are kind and open with each other.
You didn't mention sex, but...don't do it ok?

watwat

luv

i hav one question to ask u if u sleep with him then wat happens next?? wat guarantee do u have that he wont sleep with some1 else?????u r only young once dont kill your innocense b4 its time.....he aint the only guy around there will be better guys as u grow older

RubyPitbull

ummm. uhhh. watwat, you have answered a posting that is over two years old. I doubt very much that she will see your answer.