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i m in love with someone who is 8 years older than me...
it is my true love ..we both love each other ....he also loves me truely..
he is my cousin in realtion..
so he lives wid me...
but woh mujhse ab baat naihn karte...ek din mood achcha hota hai toh 1 don kharab..
kabhi kabhi he tries to ignore me..bt i know him very well.that he loves me..
we both treat each other like husband and wife..
he tells me everything nothing is hidden from my side or his side...
agar kuch baat hoti hai toh mujhse hi poochhte hain ya batate hain...
but i dont want to let him go..
please help me to stop by going..please
we have decided to marry in 2-3 years he had talked to his parents & brother and his wife... his brother and his wife dont like me...
but he (my lover) told them that i want 2 marry her whether u like her or not..
now please help me..
help me
pyaar ki maari
Hi,
The language differences and meanings might mean something here. Is he really your "cousin in relations"? By that, do you mean he is really a blood relative?
If he is really a blood relative, like an Aunt or an Uncle, or as we say in America, a blood relative Cousin, then you do NOT marry him. The persons' genes play an important part, and any children you have may be deformed!
Other than that, you do not want to marry anyone your parents do not approve of. If you do, you will face many hardships with your parents, and especially if you have children, they possibly will not want to be "grandparents" to your children.
Marriage, in itself, is difficult to keep going, and when parents are against it, it makes it even more difficult. Your chances at a successful marriage then become even less. I do wish you good luck.
Years ago and currently according to religious convictions, marriage amongst once removed relations is an acceptable practice; however, you selll yourself short by clinging to your cousin, you are not able to experience your true self. It is by connecting with someone outside of your family that will bring to surface your core self. This person will challenge you, extend you beyond what is familiar unto areas of discovery. The fact that you have had sexual relations with this man has opened you to feel that he is your true love; however, if you were to experience another, you may realize that your cousin is not your true love. Sex creates emotional confusion for the feeble. You know that this marriage will not be blessed; therefore, seek not to entangle yourself any further. Cease from sexual incest and know that another man will value you, respect you, above all, the union can be blessed.
"Does he truely love me or not" - Thats not really something we can answer - perhaps if you give us a bit more detail we may be able to give you are opinions?!
I understand a little bit of Hindi language.
Is he your blood relative cousin ? If yes, then you need to think again.
Besides being into incest which isn't considered good, the idea of marrying him after 2-3 years is a complete no-no.
I am not sure if you two have got into a physical relations too but it seems to me that you are abusing your own self. He is 8 years older than you and he is your cousin. I am not very clear on what basis you'll have decided to get married. Perhaps, you fell in love with him on first sight even before a nice guy coming to your life. Getting attracted to the opposite sex, be it relative for that matter, isn't something uncommon but one needs to understand the circumstances before coming to some emotional decision.
Either you will end up being abandoned by him or you will ditch him. Eventually, you will have a deep scar on your heart for your own stupidity. Its not too late, you could still think seriously and come out of this situation as soon as possible. You will only be left with a feeling of being sexually abused after your relationship ends. Do not go any further. Immediately back-off from this situation. Look for somebody else.
girls need to give better hints, or stop teasing and flurting to people u dont like, girls suck
Hey zeny123, we 'girls' are not here to give 'hints'. We are here to give advice - and at your age you might not know the difference. Just because you have not been given good hints in your 15 years of life and have problems more serious than those mentioned here, you should not feel free to make an off the wall statement. So next time, please try to think with the head on your shoulder, before issuing criticism that does not belong.
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