So my bf has been talking to this girl recently. I tried not to let it get to me but it's hard not too because of being hurt in the past. I know it's invading his privacy but I went into his msn and have his conversations saved to a folder under some of my school work. He is telling her I'm his ex! Do I confront him about it right away or do I tell her he's lying about me and see what happens? I'm not sure what to do. I'm really lost.

Marriedguy

What!? He is right about one thing you are now his ex. Tell him that its over and you know dont even explain why it is.

Dont feel bad about accessing him accounts. My wife has passwords to everything..aol accounts, msn, bank account, cell phone voicemail if you love someone your life is an open book.

If you stay be prepared to be cheated on.

I'm sorry to hear this your deserve better.

Altenweg

He's lying to you and he's lying to her. Liars don't deserve a chance to explain, and you don't have to tell him anything, other than goodbye. This is a taste of your future, spit it out!

talaniman

Disappear, from his life and he wont be a liar, or a cheater, Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm! At least not on you!

N0help4u

When they are anywhere near each other walk up to him and give him a big kiss and say
something that gives her the idea that he must be lying. Like honey (or whatever you call him affectionately) I was wondering if we could spend some time together this evening? (or something to that effect).

That way he is put on the spot to make a decision and live with it one way or the other.

If you confront him by just asking he will deny it. If you tell her about it he will say you went behind his back into his business by talking to her.

jasmine_rezzag

If my bf did the same to me,surely he will become my ex as he said!