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    TAYlA1112 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 9, 2009, 03:36 PM
    In love with a thug
    Okay, so there's this boy, and he is the type that has all the girls, and just, I don't know. A whore... I've been knowing him since I was little and we reconnected about last year. And I've known that he was a whore since I met him but now, I can't stop thinking about him. I know that he's liable to break my heart, but yet I let myself get hurt, even when I'm expecting it. Just call me stupid. But I just want to know, how do I make him fall in love with me. I mean, at one point, I think he loved me, or had feelings for me, but now I think I'm just like the rest. HELP!! I love him.:confused::(
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    Feb 9, 2009, 03:46 PM

    You can't make someone love you nor make them change. Since already know he is a player it's best for you to stay away unless you want to get hurt and a rollercoaster relationship full of drama.

    Find someone that wants you and only you and is capable to build something with.
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    Feb 9, 2009, 03:50 PM

    Well you can't very well make somebody fall in love with you. They are either going to fall in love with you with their own free will, or they aren't. Guys who have all the ladies in their pocket are sometimes difficult to deal with. I agree with you that if I were in this situation I would definitely go in with caution. I think it's a likely assumption that he could break your heart. But it's just as likely that any other guy will break your heart. If you love him and you believe him to be a good guy than go for it. Tell him the way you feel or if you don't want to do that ask him out even so much as a friend. After that if he loves you it usually is quite clear. In saying that though I don't know what you mean by "whore" but if he likes taking girls to bed you could be in for trouble. This is not an indicator of a good guy. He might sleep around and that is probably going to hurt a lot. I would suggest if you want to pursue a relationship to tread lightly and see what happens with him. If nothing move forward with your life, he won't be the only guy.
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