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Asked Aug 7, 2011, 03:49 AM — 20 Answers
I love one girl so much. I sent more "love you" in her mobile, but she doesn't reply to my message. But 3,4 months after she told me "the love is I don't know but you are my best friend, and friendship. I like you ". After that I also sent more "I love you" she doesn't reply. But I love her so much, so what do I do?


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Aug 7, 2011, 12:19 PM
Also when I love so much that's girl, she sent me! Sms morning time n night always she talking wid me long time. N she said don't tell more other people to your my frien n I am your friend. Also she doing me! Like her boyfriend. But she doesn't reply my "i love you" massage. That's way I don't know is she love me or not. I am confiused. Is she love me! Or not?
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Aug 7, 2011, 12:27 PM
She. Does. Not. Love. You.
For love to happen you need two people who feel the same way about each other. What you have is infatuation.
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Aug 7, 2011, 12:27 PM
She is "doing" you? Explain what that means.

She is not going to respond to the message because she gave you an answer to that. She DOES NOT love you. Be her friend!
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Aug 7, 2011, 12:34 PM


And stop spamming this site. Answer your own question to add more info, stop putting the same posts in several other areas.
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Aug 7, 2011, 12:41 PM
Lyra123 sorry, my english is so poor
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Aug 7, 2011, 01:24 PM
I just want to know what you mean by she is "doing" you. It has a few meanings in English.
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Aug 7, 2011, 01:39 PM


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Originally Posted by Lyra123 View Post
I just want to know what you mean by she is "doing" you. It has a few meanings in English.
"also she doing me! Like her boyfriend"

I think he means "she is treating me as her boyfriend."

Actually, if she is, but won't respond to his love messages, that's pretty mean and another reason to move on.
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Aug 7, 2011, 01:42 PM
O alright, well that clears up that area Wondergirl.

Then I continue with my previous statement. She has made it clear you are friends, back off of her.

And listen to Wondergirl. She is wonderful
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Aug 7, 2011, 03:24 PM


Attention to a friend is not like a boyfriend, and that's why she doesn't reply to I love you. Back off and be a friend and act NORMAL, not like a lovesick, immature kid.
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Aug 7, 2011, 07:23 PM
Hongla, may I ask what your cultural background is? What country do you live in?

Is she allowed to have a 'boyfriend'? Is she allowed to have a friend who is male?

It seems to me that she is treating you like a female friend. Someone she cares about as a friend.

I don't think she means to confuse you. I think you are doing that to yourself.

There is one main way to end the confusion you feel and that is to walk away.
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