Hello Everyone! I have been with my girlfriend for about a year now and i really do love her. Since we graduated from high school, we have had many ups and downs. She currently goes to a college in northern california and i live in southern california. So we are doing the long distance relationship. She trusts me and i trust her and we both want this to work out. I call her everyday to check up on her and see how she is doing. But lately she has been feeling differently and wont tell me why. She said that she will call me when she is better.... What should i do? Has something bad happened? Please help!

LearningAsIGo

If something has happened, she will tell you. Just give her a few days and I'm sure she'll call like she promised.

alicepine

ok sweetie i'll be honest. she's cheating. you can get mad and not listen all you want but if you didn think so your self you wouldn't have posted this. but, if you want other solutions ya i got none so hopeful other peep will post so you don only have my opinion

madaman

In all the relationships ive been in, my partner and I have never had any trouble talking about things no matter what they were. The only time situations like this happened was right before the breakup(s). I dont mean to imply this is happening, but think about it. If you two were so close, what could there possibly be that she couldnt talk to you about aside from another guy, or just loss of feelings for you?

Homegirl 50

She may not be cheating, but she may have met someone and may want to date this person. Be prepared.
But this is the time for dating. You both should be free to date. As young as you both are, in different places meeting new people all of the time, it is a bit unreasonable to date exclusively.

statictable

You mentioned trust and you call her every day. Our feelings do grow as distance increases. (F1 x D sq = F2) where F1 is feelings before separation; D is distance in miles> squared and F2; feelings after separation. This play on the Inverse Square Law is demonstrable for the entire spectrum of feelings including the good and the bad. Understand she's away from you in school and trying to learn and best for you to relax and develope some new skills or interests aside from daily cell phone use. Very best wishes and you'll be fine.

Dv89

Today in school i couldn't think!! All i thought about was her... and i wanted to call her badly but i felt like she would just get annoyed by me or something...i texted one of her friends to talk to her and she responded by saying that she will call me when she feels better....How long could this be??