I like him

serena6878 · #1 Apr 11, 2008, 08:15 PM

I never believed I could like another guy after the break up with my first boyfriend. But I do now.
I feel he likes me more. And he is more like a mature man. His eyes are full of care when he sees my eyes, and he always smiles to me. Although I know he is a typical guy of that lively type, I find myself in fond of him.
The thing is still ideal for me. He knows I am lonely and sad after break-up, he says he would like to hang out with me every day. He calls me every day. So we play balls, frisbee, and watch movie together. He comes to my dorm every day, and escorts me back every day. I feel he treats me much better than my ex-boyfriend. This afternoon, we sat on a swing. He put his arm around me for several seconds, and then he said sorry to me.
I don't know what he is thinking of me. I like him. What should I do?

Gernald · Apr 11, 2008, 08:39 PM

GO OUT WITH HIM!!!!!!!!

He obviously likes you...you obviously like him. He's terrified that you'll hate him if he makes the first move (hence saying he's sorry).
Your really lucky to find a guy that makes you this happy, so relax, and go for it, you have nothing to loose.

Good luck, though I doubt you'll need it.

Clough · Apr 12, 2008, 12:49 AM

Hi, Serena!

Remember me? I do agree with Gernald above! Also, the way that things have been going with this man, and he sounds like a real gentleman, it looks like it could work out to be a great relationship!

svatnsdal · Apr 12, 2008, 09:54 AM

It sounds like you found a good man here! Or, like Clough said, gentleman! Maybe play the first move. I think you are a very lucky woman who shouldn't let this man get away!

serena6878 · Apr 12, 2008, 10:05 AM

Thank you, talaniman.

chuff · Apr 12, 2008, 10:29 AM

I think he said he was sorry because he feels like he's getting mixed signals.



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