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i met this beatiful girl we went out but then she said she didn't want a boyfriend right now and its tearing me apart because we love each other and i don't know how love can disappear so fast i mean it must be there still right
well
do what is wait for sometime '
go on meeting her a time will come when she will be in love with u finally and she will accept it ,
girls do say no ,in the beginning ,
i am a girl i know it .
best of luck for ur love.
<<i met this beatiful girl we went out but then she said she didn't want a boyfriend right now and its tearing me apart because we love each other and i don't know how love can disappear so fast i mean it must be there still right
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you just went out once??
Sorry but that not love but infatuation.....!
You don't love her. You want to have her but you don't love her. Move on there is a girl waiting out there just for you. Believe in the fairytale, but make your own happy endings.
Willster, would be helpful if you could give us more information, as I'm not sure if you went out once or one year?Was that her only reason for splitting up because "she didn't want a boyfriend right now?" The more information about your situation the better picture we get and the more detailed answers you receive, thanks
i met this beatiful girl we went out but then she said she didn't want a boyfriend right now and its tearing me apart because we love each other and i don't know how love can disappear so fast i mean it must be there still right
ok well im a girl and when girls say they dont want a boy friend it is for a reason if it is not that she doesnt like u then she is probably going through somthing really tough and if u soport her as a frien then ur bound to get resultz later on in life, just be patien and it will pay off!
p.s make sure you truley love ok?
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Originally Posted by willster
i met this beatiful girl we went out but then she said she didn't want a boyfriend right now and its tearing me apart because we love each other and i don't know how love can disappear so fast i mean it must be there still right
You went out once and you think that's love? That's just not healthy.
Secondly whatever the affection between you is you do not "love each other." She made that clear when she said she didn't want a boyfriend.
Third, "love" or more accurately, infauation can disappear when one party becomes to needy and dependant on the other. In your 3 line post I gathered that you are needy so if she knows then try to think what's going through her mind.
Forget the love and be a friend and don't pressure her to be with you but have fun and get to know her and see where it leads. You can't expect her to fall for a stranger can you? Even though you did.
Love does not appear or disappear fast. You've obviously become infatuated with this person and have confused it with "love." How she may have felt about you is a different issue but I can assure you it was not "love." She was honest and upfront with you in telling you she does not want a boyfriend right now. No doubt you came on as much too needy and clingy and that was a big turn-off to her. Back off and let her realize that you don't need her. Fill your time with other pursuits. Don't constantly call, IM or obsess about her. She needs to miss you and needs some mystery. Be somewhat aloof and not always available. Make her chase you ; that'll raise her interest level.
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