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I love my boyfriend but sometimes I question it

Asked Aug 2, 2012, 11:53 AM — 11 Answers
I have been with my boyfriend for eight months, and i love him to pieces, i get very jealous over little things, some days if he says he doesnt want to see me i get upset. i always want to be with him. But a lot of the time i'm alone i start questioning whether or not i want to be in this relationship, i wonder about other guys also. is this normal? i hate this feeling, and i'm scared of losing him. can someone help me please

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Aug 2, 2012, 12:05 PM
You're insecure, very insecure and unless you learn to deal with these insecurities you're going to throw your relationship under the bus. You have to either trust your boyfriend or leave. Without trust, there is no relationship.
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Aug 2, 2012, 12:07 PM
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You're insecure, very insecure and unless you learn to deal with these insecurities you're going to throw your relationship under the bus. You have to either trust your boyfriend or leave. Without trust, there is no relationship.
i trust him completely. what im trying to say is i question whether i want to be with him or not, but other times i get upset over him, is it my hormones?
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Aug 2, 2012, 12:15 PM
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i trust him completely. what im trying to say is i question whether i want to be with him or not, but other times i get upset over him, is it my hormones?
Horomones is a possibility, but I think at any point in a relatonship, if you have doubts about it, maybe it really isn't meant to be. Do you want to spend the rest of your life having doubts about your partner?
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Aug 2, 2012, 01:00 PM
no i don't. but i know that i want to be with him

i love him so much, and i can't imagine being without him, i know i want to be with him
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Aug 3, 2012, 03:45 AM
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i love him so much, and i can't imagine being without him, i know i want to be with him
Then you just answered your own question. Now to prove to yourself that you want to be with him as much as you say, then stop being so insecure. Actions speak louder than words.
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Aug 8, 2012, 10:49 AM
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Then you just answered your own question. Now to prove to yourself that you want to be with him as much as you say, then stop being so insecure. Actions speak louder than words.
thankyou
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Aug 8, 2012, 11:52 AM


Maybe you should have other things to do besides worry yourself over a relationship,like a very healthy happy social life. Life goals and activities and hobbies.

Sometimes our feeling do confuse us, especially the young and inexperienced, we are just unsure about ourselves, or the future, and that makes us insecure and confused.

How old are you, and do you stay in this relationship because you are afraid to be alone, or explore and experiment on your own?

8 months is not a long time at all, and maybe you are just learning what each other is about.
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Aug 22, 2012, 01:29 PM
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Maybe you should have other things to do besides worry yourself over a relationship,like a very healthy happy social life. Life goals and activities and hobbies.

Sometimes our feeling do confuse us, especially the young and inexperienced, we are just unsure about ourselves, or the future, and that makes us insecure and confused.

How old are you, and do you stay in this relationship because you are afraid to be alone, or explore and experiment on your own?

8 months is not a long time at all, and maybe you are just learning what each other is about.
thankyou for that. I am eighteen years old, and i know that i want to be with him, i think it's just that i'm young, and i don't know what the future holds and i think that is what worries me, but for now i am happy

and what do you mean 'maybe you are just learning what each other is about.' ?
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Aug 22, 2012, 03:25 PM


Right now all you have are good feelings that are intense, but be real, there is much more to learn once the happiness of initial attractions have worn off and replaced by reality. You already have nagging doubts when he isn't around to fill you with butterflies.

Maybe its a sign not get so carried away by that love thing and have a life that makes you happy when he ain't around. Keep this new love in healthy perspective, and enjoy it as you see where it leads and not be so dependent on it so fast.

To early for all that!!

Too much, too fast, crash and burn!!

Give him space so you can have space.
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