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i lost him and we love each other, how do i get him back?
ok well let me start by saying that i recently got dumped by my boyfriend of 7 months. we both love each other very very very much....we broke up cz i had done a mistake that wasnt a big deal,but it was the cherry on top of many many many mistakes.....hes my first serious relationship and i loved him from the bottom of my heart.... hes everything to me and he represents happiness....after we broke up ..i tried to get back with him and promised him that i will change and i really wanted to!! but 1 week ago there was this concert for david guetta taht i wanted to go to. i know he doesnt like me to go to concerts and stuff like that without him or alone cz there are too many guys alcohool drugs.... but stupid me,i went...so he sent me an sms saying that everythng was over cz i shldnt of been there...so at that night i was soo sad and i cldnt leave cz my bff wanted to stay there with her bff.so one of her friends , a guy, came and started dancing with me to make me feel better , but he started getting closer and closer and i was pushing him but he wldnt understand and i was soo weak cz i was soo sad so i danced with him but i was holding my tears so i started telling my bff to get him off me and finally she did so afetr that night i appologised to my ex and started begging for another chance, we were making a progress untill one day his friend shows him a video of me dancing with that guy so he got soo furious and now he doesnt want to talk to me , he blocked me on msn, removed me from facebook, doesnt answer my msgs or my phonecalss,and hes says tht he wldnt be with me even if i was the last girl on earth...and he started goin out with a girl, just once, but i know him and shes nt his type he trying to mke me jealous and he did...so help me to get him back!!
ps:he is sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo stubbornnnnnnnn!!
For starters how old are you two? Because by the looks of things you're probably really young..
Secondly you're responsible for your own life..He isn't your parent so I don't think its in his "boyfriend duties" to allow you to go to a concert or not..Anyone who would make an issue out of something like this is clearly immature and you should've dumped him before he dumped you..I'm sure it would be alright for him to go to a concert alone or with his friends.
You come off as pretty young, so my advice to you is to just learn from this relationship and move on..you'll have a lot more down the road trust me..
This guy apparently loves you so much but he won't even give you the chance to explain yourself?
Going out to a concert isn't a mistake.
Dancing with another guy - could be, I would be angry..but I wouldn't go as far as dumping my girlfriend.
It is my firm belief that whenever you are in a relationship and you find yourself having to beg for forgiveness all of the time, something is wrong and not necessarily with you.
This guy sounds very controlling and prickish. Him dumping you is probably the best thing in the world for you. You may be miserable now, but believe me you will look back on this and be glad.
He is a boy, not your father, he has no right to tell you what you can and cannot do, and this friend of his who taped you dancing and showed it to him is as screwed up and prickish as he is.
How can you get him back, you can't. He's doing NC and that is that. Personally I don't know why you'd want him back, it didn't sound like you two had the best relationship. Forget him and move on to greener pastures, there are other fish in the sea.
He is a little to controlling for a 7 month relationship, or any other for that matter, and it would have gotten much worse. He did you a great big favor, so enjoy your new found freedom, and forget this jerk. Come on going to a concert with your g/f's, and having fun without him, made him mad. You should think better of yourself.
well i tried to move on:S but i just cant:S........ he used to be great and we did actually have a great relationship but i dnt know what changed:S i feel that i need him back soo much
He manipulates you and controls you. That is not love and it is not a great relationship. What happen was you have defied him by not "obeying" him. This has made him angry. He knows he is losing his control.
You "feel" you need him back, but you don't. It's time to grow up and leave this guy alone. Love and respect yourself enough not to be mistreated, and what this guy was doing was mistreating you.
i think you are better off without him my dear
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