I really don't know this question because some women I think are not decent and kind-hearted, but guys like them.
So, do guys like those who looks sexy, or beautiful, despite the possibility that they might be not kind-hearted people?
I doubt there are different values or standards between women and men. At least, if I were a guy, I would love a gentle, good, and decent girl.

stargazer10

I would really like to know this myself. It seems that guys go for the loud, obnoxious, controlling, mean girls rather than nice, ambitious, and intelligent ones.

rockerchick_682

I think it depends on age, the younger ones are usually looking for some hot chick, even if she's a ^*$&$. I think when you find someone, the first thing you notice is their physical appearance; eyes, a$$ , hair, clothes, and when you get to know their personality that's when you start to really like them. I think guys like a girl who's attractive and takes care of herself, but I think confidence and personality is more important than anything

chuff

Above all else - Honesty.

Geoffersonairplane

Sincere women.

cjnvgq

But how many honest girls around us? Some of them are plain, obscure, or so common. Unfortunately not many of them are happy in relationship.
Honesty is easy to achieve. Even when a woman who is not loyal to his boyfriend, she could finally tell him all the past she did and then says to him, "I just want to be honest to u."
Honesty shouldn't be a measure to judge. I think kindness and decency are the most important.

chuff

Not many.


But if there not happy in a relationship that's there problem for putting up with it. And that comes from a guy that has put up with a lot that a normal person wouldn't. But that wasn't anybody else's fault but my own. But much like they are doing I justified it. Eventually, I got out of those relationships and that may be coming for the people you see or they may put up with it for life. I can't tell you the answer for each person, but I can tell you that if someone stays in an unhappy relationship, at some level it makes them happy because they feel secure, or important, or whatever else.


Sure, or she could be honest from the start and say "I'm the kind of person that is going to cheat on you if things don't go my way, or I just may cheat on you because I'm a slut." But they don't.

But in the scenrio you presented the break up would not occur because of her honesty, it would occur because she cheated.


So your looking for someone who is kind and decent but not honest. I believe you are looking for a politician.

Fr_Chuck

Just as there are different women, there are different men, the men who are drunks, hang out at bars will be looking for girls that do that.

Men who like nascar ( well I would think are just out of luck) but I guess they want women who like that also.

The idea is to find the type of person you are.

honey2700

All guys want is those s***s that act in pornos and rub on them at srtip clubs. But they settle for the nice girls because after a while they noticed it doesnt go any where with skanks but they always dream about them and wish there good girls would also be a slu*
Men are pigs and they wont change until all those dumb b****s and sloppy skanks stop being s***s and grow the f*** up.

stefani1

thats pretty sunny!!! lol. and I have to agree maybe its true? lol.