we are broken up but he gets mad if i talk to guys, but he wants to go out with someone, and ive read his text messages && he talks to her like he really likes her, but he asks me questions like am i sure i love him, or im not talking to anyone. im so confused..i love him soo much but i dont know what to do anymore

Chery

You have not 'broken' up for real yet. You need closure. You need one more time to sit down with him and TALK - not messaging, no SMS. Look each other straight in the eyes while talking and get the answers you need.

You also need to let him know that if he is interested in other people, then freindship is the only thing you can accept, and he should respect that.

He has no right to ask you all these questions. If he is a 'control' type, you need to avoid him anyway - that's not a good basis for any relationship.

Good luck, and keep us posted.

Communication is the key to any relationship - and I mean really talking with each other.

talaniman

This is the whole story, and its a sad one, http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/search....archid=2668408, You really need to be rid of this fellow in a bad way. I mean like yesterday.

svatnsdal

Never let a man tell you who you can and can not talk to! I think you should find another man.

svatnsdal

I completely agree! You have got to get rid of this man, he's not even a man! It is very obvious he is very controlling and I wouldn't be surprised that if you stay with him, you're going to end up being hit over and over, physically. Leave him!

Chery

Thank you for pointing us to the other threads Tal. And yes - she should run, not walk - as far away from this freak as fast as possible. I hope she takes this advice serious because control freaks are DANGER!

Unfortunately, there are still a lot of wolves in sheep's clothing out there and we don't see it until it is too late. Sometimes women loose more than just their 'hearts' to these kind, and I hope she gets away from him before it is too late.