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    adamabc Posts: 25, Reputation: 2
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    Jan 27, 2008, 09:31 PM
    Like being abused
    Yea so I'm trying to figure out why I like when my girlfriend hits me and hurts me both physically and mentally like calling me names like insulting me and I don't know its just hot to me and she wants to know why but I don't know either just wondering I anyone has some helpful suggestions
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    Jan 28, 2008, 06:02 AM
    Everyone's different... maybe that's just what "does it" for you. I used to think it was hot/cute when my ex would yell at me or bicker with me about something stupid.

    P.S. Every man loves a woman filled with rage.
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    Jan 28, 2008, 08:40 AM
    Its probable a fetish everyone has there own thing ;) you like getting shouted at and hit.

    Nothing wrong with it at all

    Its called S&M a lighter stage of it.

    It's the feeling of power she has. Probable like the fact that she hits you. There are many reasons you like it. And there are more people like you out there :) so don't worrie about it

    p.s id tell you what I'm into. But it would probable be banned :)


    Regards
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    Jan 28, 2008, 09:20 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by TrueFaith
    its probable a fetish everyone has there own thing ;) you like getting shouted at and hit.

    nothing wrong with it at all

    its called S&M a lighter stage of it.

    its the feeling of power she has. probable like the fact that she hits you. there are many reasons why you like it. and there are more people like you out there :) so dont worrie about it

    p.s id tell you what im into. but it would probable be banned :)


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    As would I... tee hee
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    Jan 28, 2008, 09:43 AM
    You are not alone, as there are a lot of freaky deaky people out here. Not me though.
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    Jan 28, 2008, 10:23 AM
    I always thougt it was sexy when my girlfriend yelled... It makes sex (make up sex) so much better and aggressive... lol So may people think it's hot to see a girl act tough.
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    Jan 28, 2008, 10:35 AM
    How do we know you're telling the truth about this?

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    Jan 28, 2008, 01:50 PM
    Hahahahahaha need karma your great that was nice I am telling the truth I've worked on not lying and have hardly lied in a long time compared to all the time but yea glad to know I'm not alone
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    Jan 28, 2008, 02:00 PM
    That is not an uncommon fetish, or fantasy for many people.

    I for one, believe that almost any issue we question as an adult, can be somehow traced back to things we experienced in our childhood.

    Was there any abuse, either physical or mental, in your childhood?

    You don't need to answer, I'm not prying, just something for you to take a look at.

    We tend to find comfort in what ever is familiar to us, even if it seems strange to others.

    I guess really though, as long as no one is really getting hurt, I wouldn't worry about it too much. Just go with what you enjoy, as long as their aren't any young children around to witness any of this type of behavior, I see no harm in it.

    Good luck!
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