ok so Pete split up with me on Sunday, says he does not love me anymore. there was no warning signs and everything was fine until saturday evening.

I went away for the night on a hen do. I phoned him that night and he could not get me off the phone quick enough.

I did not hear from him all day Sunday, I text him in the end and after a huge delay he responded and asked me to pop round - thats when he told me.

I ws in total bits.

To make matters worse I found out on the Monday after that I am pregnant, I have told him; but he is all over the place and giving me mixed signals as to how he feels about me.- I don't know what to do?!
Please Help me.

Krs

How are feeling all in all?
Ok?

Its good to hear that Pete is eventually comin round.

DJ 'H'

I am fighting fit and full of energy. been so busy with DJing, swimming and seeing all of my friends and organising bits and pieces for littlin that I have not had timw to stop and get depressed or anything lol - all in all pretty happy. See if you stay postive and carry on living things soon sort themselves out - you just have to ride the storm until they is a break and soon enough things will clear up and resume course.

Krs

Thats the spirit Holly keep it up

DJ 'H'

I intend to - just kinda remembered who I am and, realised I needed to embrace myself again

Jesushelper76

That is a beautiful pic you have Holly. Thank you for letting us know how you were doing. I was thinking about you and your little one and I was wondering how you were doing.

Joe

Jay_Jay

Sorry to hear about the problems you have been having ! Its good to see that you are embracing yourself I hope you have lots of luck and things go very well for you.

Wildcat21

Holly - that;s great - good news. Nice pic. Be strong.

Hmmmmm - maybe Pete will fully come around? Maybe he will get it. Interesting - keep us posted.

DJ 'H'

Well I was sat outside earlier and peteb came out to go for a bike ride. I was on my phone - before he rode off; he made a point of getting my attention and waving to me before he went off on his bike ride... to which I waved back. Yesterday we even had a text conversation about a mutual friend. So I guess you could say things are slowly progressing down the right track...only prob I have now is that my job have now said that I am useless and my work a load of crap and they are trying to make me say i'll leave...everyone I have spoken to reckons they are trying to find a way around the fact I am pregnant (since I only started on 1st June)...because they were happy with me and my work before hand and there are still things that I am learning but they are not giving me a chnace to embrace and understand and they are not offering me any kind of support. they made a huge list of errors and faults that I have been making and telling me it's very disappointing and they are just carrying me at the moment. I have never had this said to me in any job and the line of work I am doing is along the same lines to what I have been doing for the past 4years. Plus they did not point out to me in those two months the mistakes I was making and they have said atleast 4 people have complained about me and mu abilities.

As one thing goes right, something else goes wrong....what do you think?!

Chery

Holly, you have gone through so much lately that it really spins my head. But, you've mastered mostly all of them very well, and you will also master this one.
Right now, try not to let yourself get stressed out by the mobbing you are going through. These people would probably kick a dog that's already down and enjoy every moment of it. They will probably push it to the legal limit, and if you have documentation and/or witnesses, you can take them to civil court later. You have your talents and know it. Right now though, you have a much bigger job ahead of you - and the hell with the money - you'll get support, I'm sure, from Pete's folks, you step dad, and all your friends. They will all make certain that you will not starve and get the proper nutrition for you and the baby.
Also, they will be there for you when you feel stressed - and that's very important. So swallow your pride and accept all the emotional, financial, and other support offered. If I were there, you'd be staying with me.
I kind of suspected that Pete would not totally distance himself from you, he is after all a human, and we all make mistakes. He just needed some time to adjust to the present situation and realize the change in your lives. Nobody is a 100% perfect, but as long as we are still breathing there is room for improvement. I'm also sure that deep down you still love him very much, and will probably be willing to forgive him. And guess what - this is OK. A lot of couples go through one crisis after another, but surviving them makes them stronger.
The current issue at your workplace will also pass - you'll have time to think about what you could do with your talents - maybe even get a job that makes you happy and content. Your main job now is your child, a year or two of attention for him/her, no matter what you have to do without financially. Money is nice to have, but it is not everything.
I truly wish you all the best, dear, and I'm sure you'll eventually see a 'light at the end of that tunnel'.
Lots of love and best wishes,
Chery

Someone will always be out there to give you a hard time - place yourself above them - they are pitiful.

DJ 'H'

well I am just getting through a day at a time at the moment - but have decided to leave because it is now putting too much stress on me. - I sought out advice from Petes Dad because he knows about this stuff and last night out of the blue and totally unexpected I received a text message from Pete asking me how my day at work had gone and if I was ok?!.... I was so overjoyed by this that I realised that there is more to life than work and Pete certainly means more to me and you are right Chery I ndo still love him very much...its not something you can just switch off - you just adapt. We\are talking quite often now ans when we go to leve eachother we have that awkward moment where we look at eachother and don't know what to do - hug etc - so we end just saying "Seeya later" and I usually scarper a bit quick lol