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Jun 2, 2006, 06:24 AM
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| | | My life is in bits .... ok so Pete split up with me on Sunday, says he does not love me anymore. there was no warning signs and everything was fine until saturday evening.
I went away for the night on a hen do. I phoned him that night and he could not get me off the phone quick enough.
I did not hear from him all day Sunday, I text him in the end and after a huge delay he responded and asked me to pop round - thats when he told me.
I ws in total bits.
To make matters worse I found out on the Monday after that I am pregnant, I have told him; but he is all over the place and giving me mixed signals as to how he feels about me.- I don't know what to do?!
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Jun 6, 2006, 07:53 AM
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| Not to be a jerk Holly, but I kind of sniffed that out in my first post. Just because of the way you describe how he was acting. Has lately been doing other things or gone for a few hours at a time? |
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Jun 6, 2006, 09:00 AM
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| Well there his wierd behaviour on his birthday which I described in another thread. And he did get mad at me a couple of weeks ago because he thought a male friend of mine and I had disappeared together. I only went to the toilet and passed my male friend on the way there.
Later after talking he brojke down, cried and apologised! |
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Jun 6, 2006, 09:02 AM
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| Hes been going out on his motorbike a little more - but the weather has been really dry & sunny recently. But he has got back from work later than me quite a few times - which is unusual because he is usually home before me - the only major thing is that Saturday night and the guilty look on his face the next day! |
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Jun 6, 2006, 09:06 AM
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| Have u asked him if he has someone else? or if he cheated and is feeling very guilty. |
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Jun 6, 2006, 09:10 AM
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| that was one of the first things I asked him! Of course he said no - so I don't know for sure - however he is not going to tell me even if he has been with or got someone else is he?! |
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Jun 6, 2006, 09:13 AM
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| Oh i know! I doubt anybody would answer that kind of question in all honesty. Its just maybe you could have caught something from his reaction to that question. |
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Jun 6, 2006, 09:19 AM
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| maybe I should call his bluff - I am so fed up and I still don't know what to do. I have moved out of my house temporaily because Pete lives next door. Its just too painful! |
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Jun 6, 2006, 09:21 AM
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| Oh i was i could do more to help you, i really do. 
I feel abit helpless and speechless.
xxx |
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Jun 6, 2006, 09:22 AM
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| I know he will come clean. I still think something weird happened Saturday - ran into a gal he may have been interested in, met someone.
I think you've given him time he needs to say what's on his mind I think. |
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Jun 6, 2006, 09:25 AM
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| Yep he cant leave you in this loop hole for longer, its been a few days now, its time he comes clean |
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