ok so Pete split up with me on Sunday, says he does not love me anymore. there was no warning signs and everything was fine until saturday evening.
I went away for the night on a hen do. I phoned him that night and he could not get me off the phone quick enough.
I did not hear from him all day Sunday, I text him in the end and after a huge delay he responded and asked me to pop round - thats when he told me.
I ws in total bits.
To make matters worse I found out on the Monday after that I am pregnant, I have told him; but he is all over the place and giving me mixed signals as to how he feels about me.- I don't know what to do?!
Please Help me.
He is pressuring me to make a decision even thiugh I asked for space and told him I would contact him when I was ready! - he is being really horrible with it! - it is breaking my heart and really upsetting me. I never thiught he could be so cruel - his friends and family are just as baffled as me.
Petes mum is coming round to see me later - as she wants to be there for me!
At least you are getting support even from his family. That is a very good sign. Please give it some time. Do not let him pressure you to make a decision. You both made the decision to be together. Both of you created the baby together. I am happy to hear that you have support. As far as the bitter and being a arsehole who knows what is going on inside his head. None of us can get into somebodys head but obvously something is really eating away at him. He is taken it out on other people. Just have your time with his mom and let her be a comfort to you.
Hmmmmm - strange. I hope you are not seeing the real Pete and he comes around - something to think about.
It is a good sign that his mother supports you.
Here the real deal though....I don't think anyone should get serious about realtionships and marriage until at least age 25 - your brain isn't even fully developed until age 25.....I know I wasn't ready until my 30's. A lot of guys take a long time to mature - Pete might not just be there yet.
Remember - this a massive change not only for you, but for him.
DJ, I'm sorry to hear that Pete broke up with you. I know that he upsets you, but try to talk to him and ask him if he wants to continue the relationship because it seems like he's sending you mixed signals. If he doesn't want to be part of you or your baby's life, you must try to except it and focus on yourself and the future. It's your choice whether or not you want to keep the baby. If you choose to have the baby and he doesn't want to be a father, he still has financial obligations to the child. I hope everything works out well with your boyfriend. Remember that your family, friends and all of us here at AMHD are there for you.
He won't talk - but his mum seems to realise that Pete is not telling us everything - I found out yesterday that his brother Matt know why we are not together - and matt is only 16yrs. How can he confide in someone so young when he cannot even confide in me or his parents. I am starting to think he has someone else?!
His mum said I am a very special girl and she is behing me 100% - she also prayed for Pete and I to find our way through all of this.
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