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Apr 7, 2008, 12:15 PM
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| | | Letter written during NC from BF.
Guys.. what does this mean? I didnt contact him for 2 weeks then received this email.
This is a bad idea to write to you, but I want you to know where I stand. I am NOT over you, but we both know the way I've been treating you has been wrong of late. And I don't know why I have those on and off feelings. But the fact is I do have them. So it's true I'm not over you, but I want to be. And you should want to get over me as well so we can both move on with our lives happy with the experiences we've had together, not angry at the current situation. I want you to enjoy life to the fullest because you're insanely beautiful(naturally), and you are in for a very big year and need no distractions.
Miss you
Please don't write back
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Apr 8, 2008, 06:00 AM
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| But why is he acting so retarded? He was the one that left me, so im moving out! He doesnt know what the hell he wants, and know making me feel guilty that I am trying to move on.
Wow. |
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Apr 8, 2008, 06:11 AM
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#12
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| Quote: | Originally Posted by supergirl2008 But why is he acting so retarded? He was the one that left me, so im moving out! He doesnt know what the hell he wants, and know making me feel guilty that I am trying to move on.
Wow. |
It's a control thing. Sort of. Some of them like to have their claws in you. The thing is to not let them have that power over you at all and ignore them. | |
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Apr 8, 2008, 07:24 AM
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| I think its more your reaction, than his action to be honest. | |
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Apr 8, 2008, 07:31 AM
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| My reaction? Well the only way for me to move on is to move OUT asap. I can't handle this drama anymore, the rollercoaster right is draining me. So he wanted to not be in this relationship, therefore Im out. How is that wrong?? | |
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Apr 8, 2008, 07:46 AM
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#15
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| Never said it was wrong, But letting him know was. We all do what we do, so good luck. | |
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Apr 8, 2008, 07:51 AM
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| Really... it was wrong? Argh...  Why is that... Thanks for your help  | |
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Apr 8, 2008, 08:10 AM
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| Why give him the satisfaction of letting him know you cared? Now disappearing would have been cool. Let him wonder. I know, sometimes I can be very vindictive. Sorry. | |
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Apr 8, 2008, 08:40 AM
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#18
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| The whole point is that going no contact is all about actions. You don't need to give him a play by play. That means no more emails, no nothing. This way you aren't available for him to play games with. You are removing yourself from it and from the drama. | |
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Apr 8, 2008, 08:52 AM
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| Thanks guys... I will do that. I guess telling him i was moving was not that great of a idea. Oh well, all said and done, I am moving and very excited to start fresh... maybe this will have him wonder and realize how he really feels. ( he doesnt know where im moving too, which is the good thing | |
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Apr 8, 2008, 09:20 AM
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| Quote: | Originally Posted by supergirl2008 Thanks guys... I will do that. I guess telling him i was moving was not that great of a idea. Oh well, all said and done, I am moving and very excited to start fresh... maybe this will have him wonder and realize how he really feels. ( he doesnt know where im moving too, which is the good thing |
You will be just fine | |
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