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friend4u178 · Jan 15, 2010, 08:23 PM

So tell her if she wants to know how your doing , that your doing great until she contacts you , and if she really cared she'd leave you alone.

bjohnrupp · Jan 15, 2010, 08:24 PM

Yea thanks man... next time I'll just say "please dont contact me unless you wanted to get back together."

bjohnrupp · Jan 15, 2010, 08:26 PM

Originally Posted by friend4u178

So tell her if she wants to know how your doing , that your doing great until she contacts you , and if she really cared she'd leave you alone.

Yea that's a good one- I like that!

bjohnrupp · Jan 16, 2010, 11:58 AM

Hey everyone- one of my good friends from work (whos a lot older than me) asked me if I heard from my ex at all. I told him how she just recently contacted me again and I told him how I was mean to her so that she'd leave me alone. He told me that he's friends with all his ex'es and that there good to keep around because once in a while all ex'es want booty calls (he said even if there in a relationship they all do this) So does anyone agree with him? Is it good to try to be friends with an ex for booty calls? He said the reason that girls do this is because there comfortable doing it with you because you've already done it a thousand times. This guy is 13 years older that told me this so I don't know- maybe he's right?

amicon · Jan 16, 2010, 12:10 PM

The simple answer to that is:NO .
You really need to stick to NC as in do not reply to her messages and get your life back.
It doesn't matter what she does,thinks or says anymore.
It's over,leave her in the past where she belongs.

bjohnrupp · Jan 16, 2010, 12:14 PM

That's what I've done Amicon- I never called her once or texted her 1st since she dumped me. It would be nice to have her for booty calls but I would just get false hope and she would only be doing it for her pleasure and nothing else.

amicon · Jan 16, 2010, 12:23 PM

Its about getting your life back on track now-never mind her. Do not let your breakup define your life.
There is a whole good life out there-go for it.

bjohnrupp · Jan 16, 2010, 12:26 PM

So the next time she texts me should I just do no contact and not say anything mean anymore? She obviously wants to be friends but I noticed being mean to her hasn't worked and she still keeps trying to contact me... just ignore all her messages I guess?

amicon · Jan 16, 2010, 12:37 PM

John-you go no contact and you stay no contact-forever if that's the case-just let it go-ok? When its over,its over,sad as that is, but moving on is a good thing-who knows what we'll find around the next corner? Good night from little old England