Kind vs Nice

CroCivic91 · #1 Jun 14, 2005, 01:57 PM

I have read women don't like "nice guys", but that being "kind" is ok.

Can someone give me a few examples of some situations (think of a good example-situation) and tell me what would a "nice" guy do, and what would a "kind" guy do?

turtlegirl · Jun 14, 2005, 07:35 PM

I'm a high school English teacher and I ask kids not to use nice at the beginning of the year. I say if I die this year and you guys say I was nice, I will rise from the grave and do someting horrifying. Nice is boring, meaningless and lame. Someone who is kind is sensitive and pays attention to another person's needs in terms of comfort, be it temperature, hunger, emotional state. Someone who is paying attention and acting to help people. I'd like to meet that guy!

CroCivic91 · Jun 14, 2005, 11:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by turtlegirl

Someone who is kind is sensitive and pays attention to another person's needs in terms of comfort, be it temperature, hunger, emotional state. Someone who is paying attention and acting to help people.

Thanks for your reply. If that is considered "kind", then what is considered "nice" (as in "too kind"?)?

Wildcat21 · Jun 15, 2005, 12:12 PM

Nice - is an KISSER, seeks aproval, buys effections, is needy-clingy, manipulative, trys to CONVINCE a gal to like him

Kind is to do things because YOU want to and do not expect anything in return.

CroCivic91 · Jun 15, 2005, 02:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Wildcat21

Nice - is an KISSER, seeks aproval, buys effections, is needy-clingy, manipulative, trys to CONVINCE a gal to like him

Kind is to do things because YOU want to and do not expect anything in return.

Excellent, excellent!

Thanks a lot...things are much clearer now.

Wildcat21 · Jun 16, 2005, 12:36 PM

Nice - gets walked all over and doesn't even know it.

toonking · Jun 21, 2005, 07:51 AM

"Nice" men do things out of insecurity, a need to be liked. "Kind" men do things out of compassion and understanding, and the kindness is inherent -- they'd do the same for anybody in need, not just a hot woman.

Wildcat21 · Jun 21, 2005, 08:20 AM

That was outstanding. Yes.

PeterJohn · Jun 22, 2005, 09:53 AM

I swear I hate that word, ive been called nice by too many girls too many damnnn times. and with the girl im dating now, im trying not to be nice, but for someone reasons i find myself falling back into the nice guy thing and i know deep down if i keep it up, im probably gonna lose her

Wildcat21 · Jun 22, 2005, 10:37 AM

PeterJohn my man,

Do yourself a LARGE favor and learn about 'nice guys'.

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Goto www.realtionships.blog-city.com - learn about WHY it's bad for business to be an -kissing nice guy.

Get this part of your life in order. Woman HATE -kissers.



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